Tag: perfect

No One Will Love You More Than You Love Yourself

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Self-care is your care. If you do not care for yourself, no one will care.

It is on you. No one is going to love you more than you do for yourself.

People are not selfish. They are busy taking care of their own wants and needs.

If you are serious about taking care of yourself, loving yourself, then stop driving yourself crazy.

Stop telling yourself negative things. Stop making your life miserable.

Stop wasting your time with people who don’t even know whether you are alive or not.

Start loving yourself. Start loving your work. Start spending more time with yourself.

Stop trying to be perfect. Start paying attention to what your heart wants you to do.

And if you can do these things for yourself, your life will improve. You will start to feel better about your life.

The question is, ‘Will you try?’

Embrace Imperfection For Genuine Growth

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Trying to be perfect is a road to nowhere. It is cheating yourself. It is cheating life. And it is cheating your growth and productivity.

Do not take that road. Because you are not going anywhere. You are going to be walking around. You are going to be busy, but you are not going to get to where you want to be.

Remember that perfection is not about you. It is not about what you know, what you can do. It is about your perception. It is about how you see life, how you see your life, and how you see the world around you.

But why do we focus too much on being perfect? Why do we want to be perfect?

We can achieve a lot. But not by trying to be perfect. Because it is not going to happen. The best way, the fastest way to success is to embrace your weaknesses. It is to agree with yourself that you can never be perfect, that you are not alone in the game, that other people have their own weaknesses.

They do. You are not the only one. You are not alone. So if you want to really make a difference in your life, if you want to change your life, you have got to embrace your weaknesses.

Because your weaknesses are not really your weaknesses. They are your strengths. If you have the courage to embrace your weaknesses, they will make you stronger, not weaker.