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Why You Should Be True To Yourself

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Do not be afraid to love yourself, to be who you are, to take action to make your life better. If you do not take action to express your true Self, you are not going to be able to get what you want. People are not going to care about you. Because you are not living your life.

Remember, living your life is attractive. When you are true to yourself, people see it. They will come to you. Because people want to be around other people who are doing well.

Do not limit yourself. You can live your life, no matter where you are. You can stay true to who you are. You can achieve success without trying to copy other people, without trying to be like anyone out there. Even if you do it, it is not going to work. Why? Because you can’t be like another person. You are different. You are you.

That is why you should be true to yourself, no matter what. Do not let people talk you out of your growth. Because being true to yourself is good for you. It is good for your health, for your success. And it is good for your happiness.

When you are true to yourself, you act in a positive way. You do things that make you happy, things that make you come alive.

If you want to express your real self, you have got to be true to yourself.

When You Meet People, Always Imagine True Things

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘If he be not a true man, he will draw evil out of the best; … if he be a true man, he will imagine true things…’- George MacDonald

We are good at judging people we don’t even know. When we meet other people, instead of focusing on what they are good at, we are after their weaknesses.

We are trying to figure out our differences. We are trying to know where they are different from us. That is wrong!

If you focus on other people’s weaknesses, you will never see their strengths.

If you want to know people, give them time to tell you who they really are. And they will.

Do not judge people before you even know them. We are good at doing that. And that is why we never get it right. Always wrong!

It is always wrong because you can’t judge what you do not know.

How can you judge someone you don’t even know? You can’t. Why is that? Because people are changing. You are changing. I am changing. And the world around you is changing. Nothing stays the same, even dead things.

You are not alone. We judge people every day. To do it right, if it is even right, you must start with yourself.

If you do not know others, you don’t know yourself. If you know other people, you know yourself. Because we see ourselves through the actions of other people.

People are great at heart. Whenever you meet people, do not start by judging them. Instead, give them love. And they will love you back.

Whenever you meet people, focus on what they can do, not on what they can’t do. And they will show you what they can do.