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If You Want To Grow, You Must Do What You Are Scared Of Doing

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Photo by Markus Spiske

Before you tell yourself what you can do, before you tell yourself what you can’t do, try it. Don’t just walk away. Don’t just give it up. Because you don’t even know what you can do. We think we know what we are good at, but we don’t.

When you are asked to do something, to learn something, don’t just say, “I can’t do it.” Because you don’t even know anything about what you are rejecting. The best thing to do is to think about it, study it. Don’t be scared. You can it. You can do it if you face it.

Yes, you can do it if you face it. Sometimes what we think we are not good at is really what we can do really well. Whatever it is that is chasing you, you must embrace it. Don’t ignore your opportunity to move to the next level. The things you don’t want to do are the things that can change your life. Why not do them?

Your life depends upon what you are doing right now. If you want to live a better life, a happier life, you must do what you are scared of doing. Do you have the courage to do it?

How To Learn From Defeat

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Photo by Artem Podrez

If you really want to make a difference in your own life, you must learn the act of accepting defeat. If you want to grow, you can’t avoid defeat. All you need to do is to learn from it.

In order to learn from defeat, you must first accept it as a learning opportunity. If you don’t accept it, you can’t learn from it. According to Robert Collier, “In every adversity there lies the seed of an equivalent advantage. In every defeat is a lesson showing you how to win the victory next time.” Defeat is your friend, not your enemy. If you want to make it your friend, you must accept it as your friend.

If you want to be successful, failure is normal. You just need to learn how to manage it. If you can manage your failures, you can make it in life.

There is no success without failure. But failures bring success to you. So when you make a decision to succeed in your life, even when you don’t know what is going to happen in the future, your thoughts will drive you into taking the right actions. You know, without the right action, failure is certain. Period. But you can change it. To change it, you must be willing to change. You must be willing to learn from failure. You can do it. You have done it before. You can do it again.

You can succeed in life if you keep your mind set in the right direction all the way through to your final destination (if there is one). You can succeed in your life if you are willing to learn from failure.

Remember, it doesn’t matter how many times you have been knocked down. Focusing on getting back up is what is going to get you going. It doesn’t matter how many times you have been knocked down. When you are down, don’t stay down. Because if you want to do well in your life, you must get back up. If you don’t get back up, you will never succeed. H. G. Wells said, “If you fell down yesterday, stand up today.” If you fell down yesterday, you must do whatever you can to get back up. If you don’t do it, you will never succeed. The choice is yours.