Tag: Negative feelings

How To Reset Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development

If you don’t like what is going on in your life, it is your responsibility to look within you. Do not blame it on others. Do not blame it on your family people. Yes, where we are can affect how we do things in life.

But we are responsible for what we do, what we think, and how we feel.

If you do not like your life, reset it.

If you do not like your work, reset it.

If you do not like where your life is going, reset it.

Because life is about starting again. To start again is to hit the reset button. To hit the reset button is to wake up.

Reset means doing something again. Trying something again.

Stuck means staying where you are. Not trying anything at all. Not growing at all. Just doing the same thing every day.

To hit your own reset button, don’t live in your past. Because ‘the past cannot tell you who you are, but it can give you clues about which future will provide you with the most freedom to be entirely yourself.’

When you hit your own reset button, you can learn from your past, but do not stay there.

Share your passion with people who can help you. Do not share your dreams with dream killers. And be willing to learn from your supporters.

Because ‘when you share passion, play together, and are vulnerable in your conversations, you you get to know each other in a way that isn’t otherwise possible. You build bonds of trust, and you want to do more together because it makes you feel more alive. … together, you can take more risks that wouldn’t be possible alone, because you each bring your best to the process.’

Do not waste your time. Remember, you are starting again. You are restarting your life, your success engine. Be with people who are pursuing what you are going after.

‘When you make genuine connections with like-minded people, those connections often develop into honest, authentic relationships, and magic can happen.’

The question is, ‘Are you making the right connections with the right people?’ If you are, keep on keeping on!

Source:

Gezim Gashi (2021). Unlocked: the power of YOU

Your Life Comes From What You Do Every Day

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development
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When you wake up in the morning, what do you do first? Do you check your phone? Or do you pray?

Whether you pray or check your phone, remember that you are in charge of your life. Your life is yours to control. Remember that how you live your days is exactly how you live your life.

If you want things to change, you have got to change how you live your days. You have got to shift how you see your world. You have got to change how you see the world around you.

You have to shift your attention to something that is really important to you. Look for things that make you come alive and do them. Look for other people who can help you get what you want.

But you have to be in charge of your learning. Because your success is going to come from what you are learning. Your future is going to come from what you are learning right now.

Do not focus on what is going to make you really sad. Anything that is going to make you unhappy, don’t do it. Because if you do something that you don’t want to deal with, you are not going to be happy with yourself. And your soul is not going to be happy with you.

Learn how to be with yourself, how to learn more about what is going on in your life. To do that, you must take care of your thoughts.

When you control your thoughts, your feelings will follow. So if you want to experience a better life, you have got to do better, think better, and work better.

Because you are more powerful when you are in charge of your day. And you achieve more when you are in charge of your time, when you use your time wisely.

Remember, getting busy is not the same thing as getting things done. If you want to get things done, you must find peace within you.

Because if you are always busy, if you are always doing, you will forget who you are, what you are doing, why you are doing what you are doing, and where you are going.

Do not let that be you. I hope not.

As always, when things get tough, remember, ‘You are more, not less!