Tag: Love

How To Be At Peace With Yourself

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Peace is not something you buy; it is something you create for yourself. And no one is going to create your own peace for you.

You are responsible for your peace. If you don’t do it for yourself, then be ready for what you are going to be going through every day.

Don’t do that to yourself. If you are not at peace with yourself, it is your responsibility to find out why. Remember, you are responsible for your life.

No one can make you happy. You are the only one who can make you happy. If you really want to be at peace with yourself, you must pay attention to your focus.

Because what you focus on is going to affect your life. If you focus your attention on things that are not in line with your goals, your peace will go away. You will lose your peace.

If you focus on what other people are doing, you are going to lose your peace.

If you do not want to lose your peace, you must focus on what you love. You must focus on your life. You must focus on what is important to you. Not on what is important to other people.

Don’t waste your time on what other people are doing. Instead, focus on creating your life.

Be real with yourself. Do not set goals that you can’t achieve for yourself. Set goals that are in line with what you want. If your goals are too high, you will never get there. If they are too low, you will not feel them.

Peace will come to you when you love who you are, not what you have. Peace is not after what you have. Peace is after what you are becoming. Peace is after where you are going. Peace is after what you are doing to make the world a better place.

If you are not at peace with yourself, you have got to change your focus. And you have got to learn how to manage your expectations.

Remember, peace is an internal thing. If you want to be at peace with yourself, you must protect your inner world.

Are You A Good Example?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Are you one?

Being a good example is showing people what is possible. It means leading the way. It means going the way before you invite other people to join you.

It is about how you live your life. Being a good example is not about your success. It is about your failures.

You are a good example when people are willing to follow you, when you take care of people, when you don’t talk about yourself,when you don’t disrespect other people.

Being a good example is hard. It is very hard to do. That is why some of us don’t do it. But if you can do it, you will never regret it.

The question is, are you a good example? Are people willing to work with you? Are people comfortable when they are with you? Are people telling you things that they can’t tell other people? Do you love people? Are in it for you? Or are you in it for others? How do you treat people? Do you really care about people?

If you are, then you are a good example. Keep it going. Never stop being you. Because that is what being a good example truly means.

You are a good example when you do what you say you are going to do. You are a good example when you live your life with integrity, when you treat other people with love.

You are a good example when you love people, when you forgive other people, even when they don’t deserve it.

You are a good example when you show other people the way, when you work really hard to bring out the best in other people.

The best way to be a good example to others is to first be one to yourself. According to Rowland Hill, ‘We can do more good by being good than in any other way.’

The question is, ‘Are you doing more good?’