‘The Dichotomy Of Leadership’

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‘Leaders must be close with their people, but not so close that it becomes a problem. They must hold the line with discipline but not become tyrannical.’

‘A good leader builds powerful, strong relationships with his or her subordinates.’

‘Micromanagement fails because no one person can control multiple people executing a vast numbers of actions in a dynamic environment, where changes in the situation occur rapidly and with unpredictability.’

‘… Leaders must carefully evaluate when and where to hold the line and when to allow some slack.’

‘Leadership capital is the recognition that there is a finite amount of power that any leader possesses.’

‘Leaders are responsible for the output of the individual on their team. The goal of any leader is to get the most out of every individual- to push each individual to reach his or her maximum potential so that the team itself can reach its maximum potential.’

‘A leader must be loyal to his individual team members and take care of them, but at the same time he must be loyal to the team itself and ensure that very member of the team has a net positive impact and doesn’t detract from mission execution.’

‘Leadership- at every level- is the critical factor in whether a team succeeds or fails.’

Training must stimulate realistic challenges and apply pressure to decision-makers. If training doesn’t push the team beyond the limits of what’s easy, the team, and particularly leaders within the team, will never develop the capacity to take on greater challenges.’

‘As aggressive as leaders must be, leaders must be cautious that they are not ‘running to their death’ simply because their instinct is to take action.’

Source:

Jocko Willink & Leif Babin (2018). The Dichotomy of Leadership

‘When Leaders Truly Listen’

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‘In a speak-up culture, people feel it is both safe and worth it to share ideas, concerns, disagreements, and mistakes.’

‘When people feel cared for, they are more likely to extend that care to others.’

Vulnerability doesn’t mean sharing everything- that could simply be oversharing. Vulnerability does mean sharing what is relevant, which includes admitting when you don’t yet know an answer or need help.’

‘If we want to cultivate a speak-up culture, we must embody the Platinum Rule: treat people as they wish to be treated.’

Any journey worth going on is made better when it’s shared.’-

Stephen Shedletzky

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‘A toxic relationship, with a leader, or with anyone, is one in which the more you invest in that relationship, the worse it seemingly gets.’

‘Leaders go first- they listen first, extend trust first, and courageously venture into the unknown first.’

‘Great leaders are obsessed with building deeper relationships with their own attributes and skills, the people around them, and the world at large.’

‘Leadership is about owning our impact on others, even if that impact was unintended.’

‘No matter how great we are at leading, the time test of our leadership is in our ability to help others become great leaders, who then help others become great leaders.’

Our job as a leader is to teach, guide, mentor, coach, and support, not to tell people how we did it and make them do it our way.’

Source:

Stephen Shedletzky (2023). Speak-Up Culture: When Leaders Truly Listen, People Step Up