Tag: Intentional Focus

What Are You After?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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What are you chasing? What are you going after? What do you want to achieve for yourself? What is that one thing that you can’t stop talking about? What is it that you can’t stop thinking about?

Whatever it is that is keeping you up at night, you must go for it. Things happen

when we chase them,

when we go after them,

when we do what others don’t do, and

when we focus on what is possible.

What you want is why you get up every day. What you are after is after you. Why? We attract who we are. We attract what we want.

Is it going to be easy? No, it is not going to be easy. But you can do it. You can achieve what you want if you do not waste your time on things that are not related to what you want.

You can achieve what you want if you focus on what you can do to change your life. You can make your life happen if you do not lie to yourself, if you are true to yourself.

If you want to move forward, you must stop focusing on what is going on right now in your life.

If you can do something about what is going on in your life, then do something about it. Or you can reach out to people who can help you. If not, then move on.

Move on. Because you have it takes to move on.

You have what it takes. You can reinvent your life. You do that by focusing on what is possible, not on what is not possible.

How To Get Along With Other People

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘The ideal community is supportive, believes in you, and makes you feel good when you’re with them.’- Claudia Chan

Life is not about us. It is more than us. Life is about other people in our lives. We need others. And they need us. If those around you are not making you better, they are the wrong people in your life.

If you feel empty when you are with them, you are around the wrong people. If they are not for your dreams, then you have got look for people who will there for you.

Remember, your dreams start with you, but you can’t make them happen alone. Because we are better when we work with other people. We do more when we are around the right people. We are happier when we are with the right people. There is nothing wrong with hanging out with people who are different from us.

The question is, ‘Are they supporting you? If they are not supporting you, they are not supposed to be in your life.

But if you are serious about attracting the best into your life, you must first decide what you want to achieve in your life.

If you want the best around you, be the best to others. Remember that the people in your life can make or break you.

Positive people are people makers. They are builders. They are supporters. On the other hand, negative people are naysayers. They are destroyers. They are breakers. If you are serious about your life, you must surround yourself with people who are doing things, who are changing the world.

The best people are everywhere. If you want them to come to you, you must go to them. Get out of your comfort zone.

When you are out there, you never know what you are going to get. It is better to be out there than to get stuck in your comfort zone.

Great people want to hang around other great people. If you want them in your life, focus on what you can do for other people. When you meet people, do not focus on what is wrong, but on what is right.

When you look for more right, you will get more right. When you focus on what is wrong, you will get more wrong.

When you meet people, especially people who are different from you, just focus on asking as many questions as possible.

Ask great questions to get great answers, to know more about them. The more questions, the better.

Finally, when you are with people, be there. Don’t judge them. Just listen to what they have to say. Guess what, they have a lot to say. To hear them, you must listen.