Tag: Honest

Your Journey Matters

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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It is your journey. No matter what life throws at you, keep walking. No matter what people throw at you, do not give up. It is your life. It is your journey. Keep going. Keep living it. Keep loving it.

Yes, keep loving it. Because if you do not love your journey, if you do not love what you are doing, if you do not love where you are going, it is very to easy to give up.

That is not why you are here. You are here to grow, to fail, to learn, to walk your walk. You are not here to watch other people getting things done. You are here to get your own things done. You are here to paint your own picture.

That is why you must respect your journey. Your journey is yours to feel, to live, to walk , to enjoy, and to celebrate.

But remember, no matter how smart you are, no matter how strong you are, no matter how honest you are with yourself, you can’t walk your walk alone.

You can’t succeed alone. Do not take the heat alone. Do not take the journey alone. You need other people who have done it before. You need positive people around you. You do not need negative people around you.

When the going gets really tough, reach out to them. Hide your ego. This is not the time to obey your ego. This is the time to believe in yourself, in your journey. And when you do, you will get there. Because it matters.

Always Evaluate Yourself In A Productive Way

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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''If you aren't evaluating yourself in a productive way, the loses and 'failures' erode your self-confidence.''- Dr Jason Selk & Tom Bartow

When it comes to your growth, when it comes to your life,
do not lie to yourself. 
You can lie to other people but not to yourself.
If you can, do not lie to other people. Because if you do, it is coming back to hurt you.
It is better to be honest with yourself. It is also important that you always tell the truth.

Because the only thing that can take you to your next level in your life, in your career, 
is being honest with yourself. When you are honest with yourself, people will see it.

If you continue to lie to yourself, if you are not telling yourself the truth about your growth,
if you are not honest about what you can do, you will get into trouble.
To avoid that, you must be honest with the people around you. 
They can help you get what you want. But for that to happen, you must first help yourself
get what you want.

What do you want? You want to grow, right? Then how are you going to get there? By doing what 
you can do. By doing what you say you are going to do. By being the person you say you are. 
By standing up for what you believe in. And by evaluating yourself in a productive way.
If not, you are not going to grow. I hope you are telling yourself the truth. 
''Only the truth will set you free!''