Always Evaluate Yourself In A Productive Way

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''If you aren't evaluating yourself in a productive way, the loses and 'failures' erode your self-confidence.''- Dr Jason Selk & Tom Bartow

When it comes to your growth, when it comes to your life,
do not lie to yourself. 
You can lie to other people but not to yourself.
If you can, do not lie to other people. Because if you do, it is coming back to hurt you.
It is better to be honest with yourself. It is also important that you always tell the truth.

Because the only thing that can take you to your next level in your life, in your career, 
is being honest with yourself. When you are honest with yourself, people will see it.

If you continue to lie to yourself, if you are not telling yourself the truth about your growth,
if you are not honest about what you can do, you will get into trouble.
To avoid that, you must be honest with the people around you. 
They can help you get what you want. But for that to happen, you must first help yourself
get what you want.

What do you want? You want to grow, right? Then how are you going to get there? By doing what 
you can do. By doing what you say you are going to do. By being the person you say you are. 
By standing up for what you believe in. And by evaluating yourself in a productive way.
If not, you are not going to grow. I hope you are telling yourself the truth. 
''Only the truth will set you free!''

Love, Not Fear

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"Those who love to be feared fear to be loved, and they themselves are more afraid than anyone, for whereas other men fear only them, they fear everyone."- Francis de Sales, Bishop of Geneva

Where there is fear, there can be no love. Why is that? Because love and fear cannot live together.
You cannot love and fear at the same time. 

If you love something, you can't hate it at the same time. If you do, then it is not real love. 
If you love something, you cannot fear it at the same time. If you do, then you are not being honest with yourself.

Love is bigger than fear. Love is better than fear. Love is sweeter than fear. When you are in love, you know no fear. When you are in love, you know no hate. When you love yourself, you accept yourself as you are. When you love others, you accept them as they are. 

Love is about acceptance, not about rejection. Love brings people together. Love doesn't separate people. Love is a healer, not a killer.
With love, with the power of love, you can bring out the best in other people. And with the power of love, you can bring out the best in yourself. Because love asks that you take care of yourself.