Tag: Happy

Allow Yourself To Feel Whatever It Is You Are Feeling

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
Green Grass Field and Trees
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We are human beings. Whatever it is that you are feeling, allow yourself to feel it. Only by allowing yourself to express your feelings can you know your true self. Do not hide your feelings.

It is okay to show your emotions. It is okay to feel your feelings. Don’t be afraid to tell people how you feel about them. If they are your true friends, they will stay with you. But if they are your false friends, they will disappear. Let them go. Your true friends will come to you. It is better to live alone and be happy than to live with people and be sad.

Whether people like it or not, you should never stop being your real self. Accept your life. Eckhart Tolle says, “Accepting means you allow yourself to feel whatever it is you are feeling at that moment… you can’t argue with what is. Well, you can, but if you do, you suffer.” Listen to your feelings. If you want to know what is happening within you, listen to your feelings. Do not ignore them.

You Can Make Yourself Happy

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth, Workplace Learning Report
Panoramic View of Sea Against Blue Sky
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Do you know who is responsible for your happiness?

Are you waiting for your best friend to make you happy?

Do you think you can make yourself happy?

Do you think your best friend or your government can make you happy?

If you are waiting for people to make you happy, if you are waiting for your boss to make you happy, it is time to change how you see yourself.

Your happiness is in your pocket. Your happiness is in your mind. Your happiness is in your actions. Your happiness is in your thoughts. If you want to make yourself happy, help people, serve others, reach out to the sick, be there for yourself. You can also make yourself happy by staying away from the things that are making you unhappy. For example, if you have a terrible friend, send him or her away.

But if you are responsible for your own unhappiness, it is time to change your mindset.

Happiness comes from you. It comes from your actions. If you want to be happy, if you want to live your life, you must think positive thoughts. Because everything starts with your thoughts.

Never put your happiness in people’s hands. It is dangerous. It is cancerous. It is not going to help you get better,

do better,

live better.

Always remember, you are the only person who can make you happy. No one can do it for you. You can make yourself happy. Try it and see what happens.