Tag: Happy

If You Want Happiness In Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development

Happiness is everywhere. If you want it, really want it, you will find it. It is not going to come to you. You have got to create your own happiness.

To make your own happiness, it is your choice. You can choose what really makes you happy, things that make you come alive.

If you want to be really happy, then think happy thoughts. Go for what is bigger than you. Open yourself to the possibility of making your own happiness happen.

If you want to be happy, you must choose your own happiness. Surround yourself with positive people. Do not hang around negative people, people who are not going anywhere.

People who do not believe they can make their own happiness, they are always looking for happiness. That is wrong. Because happiness is within you. Because happiness is not what you look for; it is what you create.

You do that by living your life on your own terms. You do that by choosing your own happiness, by choosing how you want to live your life, how you want to treat other people.

If you find happiness in what you are doing, then do more of it. If you are not happy with yourself, if you are not happy with your life, then you have got to choose your own happiness, and be willing to do whatever it is you have to do to live a meaningful life.

Whether you are happy or not, do not forget that it is your choice. Happiness is not up to chance; it is up to choice. Your choice!

This Is Your Inner Strength

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development
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Respect your uniqueness. Always celebrate who you are. You are in charge of your life. Don’t give in to what people are saying about you. Whether people like you or not, that is okay. If they don’t like who you are, how you do your things, how you treat yourself, that is not your problem. What they are saying about you has nothing to do with you. But it has everything to do with them.

When you are doing your things, when you are living your life, do not expect some people to like you. What they want you to do is forget who you are, to go along, to follow them to wherever they are going.

Do not do that! Because you are here to make a difference, to touch other people’s lives. You are not here to make people happy, to please everybody.

If you do not have the courage to celebrate your uniqueness, you are not helping yourself. You are helping other people get better, not you.

The only way to find your true self, to celebrate who you are is to respect your uniqueness. Your specialness.

According to Joyce Meyer, ‘The things in your life that make you different aren’t hinderances … they are assets.’

Do not try to change how you look. Because God doesn’t care about how you look. God cares about your heart.

If you do not have a healthy heart, your possessions don’t matter. The best way forward, according to Brianna Wiest, ‘You owe it to yourself to determine the kind of person you want to be and how that person will allow themselves to be treated.’

Before you go, as always, let me ask you these questions. ‘What do you think about yourself? How do you feel about who you are? Do you ever compare yourself with other people and feel belittled if you can’t do what they can do or be like them?’ Don’t!!!!

Be you. Remember, You are more, not less!