Love yourself enough to live your life. Do not worry about other people’s opinions. They are just opinions. If you don’t want people to talk about you, then do not do anything. If you want to grow, you must do your own thing. You must leave naysayers behind. Do not worry about them. Let them worry about themselves. Because you have an appointment with your future.
If you focus on what other people think of you, you will miss your life. You will miss the moment. Instead of worrying yourself about naysayers, why not do what Charles Dickens said. He said, “Reflect upon your present blessings- of which every man has many- not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some.” Do not worry too much about what you are going through. Instead of beating yourself up, why not count your blessings, why not love yourself even more, why not celebrate your life? Why not?