Tag: Grow

Why You Should Stop Worrying About What People Think Of You

Woman Sitting on Wooden Planks
Photo by Keenan Constance

Love yourself enough to live your life. Do not worry about other people’s opinions. They are just opinions. If you don’t want people to talk about you, then do not do anything. If you want to grow, you must do your own thing. You must leave naysayers behind. Do not worry about them. Let them worry about themselves. Because you have an appointment with your future.

If you focus on what other people think of you, you will miss your life. You will miss the moment. Instead of worrying yourself about naysayers, why not do what Charles Dickens said. He said, “Reflect upon your present blessings- of which every man has many- not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some.” Do not worry too much about what you are going through. Instead of beating yourself up, why not count your blessings, why not love yourself even more, why not celebrate your life? Why not?

How To Build A Loving Relationship

Happy Hanukkah
Photo by cottonbro

Ella Wheeler Wilcox was right when she said, “All love that has not friendship for its base, is like a mansion built upon the sand.” When we practice love, our lives can be interesting. But we don’t do that. But if we focus on hate, on negative thoughts, we are not going to achieve our dreams. We are not going to grow through life. Instead, we are going to go through life.

If we focus instead on loving ourselves, our neighbors, our friends, our crafts, we can change our lives. We can change the lives of the people around us. And we can change the world.