Why You Shouldn’t Fight The Negative

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Do not do it. Because you will never win. The best thing to do for yourself is to focus your energy on positive things. Do not focus on negative things. Do not hang out with negative people. Instead of trying to fight the negative, why not focus on loving yourself? Why not focus on what is important to you? Why not do what makes you really happy? Why not commit yourself to why you are alive?

According to Louis Hay, “Fighting the negative is a total waste of time if you really want to make changes in your life. The more you dwell on what you don’t want, the more of it you create.” So if you don’t want more of negative things, do not focus on them. Let them go. Let anger go. Let resentment. Let envy go. Let discouragement go. Let hate go. Let what you don’t want go. Do not create more of them. Why is that? Because everything you do, every thought you think, is creating your future. It is creating your future life. It is feeding your soul.

So if you want positive things in your life, you must stop thinking about negative things. You must focus on healing yourself. You must focus on discovering why you are here. You must focus on giving yourself life. You must focus more on what you have, not on what you do not have. Plant great seeds.

To win in life, you must plant the seeds of love, of faith, of respect, of courage, of kindness, and of compassion. And you can plant them. The question is, will you do it?

Why You Need Your Own Place

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“The main thing, of course, always, is the fact that there is only one of you in the world, just one, and if that is not fulfilled then something has been lost.”- Martha Graham

“There is only one you in the world.” And no one can do what you are doing. No one can live like you. No one can talk like you. No one can dance like you. No one can sing like you. Why is that? Because there is no one like you in the world. So do not worry about where you are now. Do not worry about where you are going. When you take care of now, when you take care of where you are, your future will take care of itself.

You have your own place in the world. And no one can live there but you. If you are not happy with yourself, check where you are. If nothing is working for you, check where you are. If you are not growing yourself, check what you are doing. Ask yourself, “Am I in my own place?” Because if you are not in your place, things will not be easy for you. But if you are in your place, things will not be difficult for you. Robert Colllier said, “If you have been drifting, if your work has been joyless, your business profitless, look around you for the right niche that was made for you to fill.” If you want to be successful in your life, you must look for your own niche.