How To Step Up Your Game And Improve Your Life

To step up your game, according to Carla A. Harris, ‘You must define success in a way that you can deliver and that will allow you to create performance currency by delivering a visible, identifiable achievement.’

You ‘must begin to build relationships as soon as you join an organization.’

Because ‘true relationship currency will motivate people to act on your behalf.’

Do not be too emotional in your communication at work, stay professional.’

‘Know the common signals and ask questions about what the mean, and adjust your performance as necessary to keep your career moving forward.’

‘You can’t fix it if you don’t know that it’s broken. Whether or not you think it is valid, never be argumentative or aggressive toward someone offering you constructive criticism. Be open to what people have to communicate: it will help you continue to grow.’

Be self-aware. Know your profile and what it says about you. … Your profile affects how and if people think of you when new positions, assumptions, or opportunities to lead rise.’

‘Don’t allow yourself to be overwhelmed if you lose your job. Use it as an opportunity to craft and sell your story about your skills and experience and why you make the best candidate for a new job.’

‘Rather than reinventing yourself, seek to reposition yourself by leveraging your experience.’

‘Inventory your strengths and weaknesses, categorizing your experiences, both professional and extracurricular and philanthropic, and focus on what you learned and what skills you developed.’

Create a clear picture of what kind of role you want and what skills required to be successful in that role.’

Construct an argument that connects the dots between what you have done and what you want to do now, identifying why you would be effective in that new role.’

Don’t just take any job. Even if it’s not your dream, make sure it positions you well for what you really want to do.’

Before you settle for anything, ask yourself, ‘What are the future opportunities…?

And ‘are you willing to make a few personal sacrifices along the way?’ If you are, you are more likely to succeed.

Do These Three Things When Change Is Calling

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Whether we are comfortable with it or not, change is here to stay. It is not going anywhere.

Instead of fighting change, you have got to get comfortable with being uncomfortable.

When it comes to change, you have got to be comfortable with it. You have got to make yourself comfortable with change. Because life is change. And change is life.

If you are not changing, then you are resisting it. Don’t do that, my friend. Because resisting change is not the way forward.

The only way forward, no matter how tough, how difficult, is to embrace change. It is to say, ‘Change, I am all in.’ Because change is always calling.

When it calls, don’t say no. When you say no to change, you are saying no to life, to your growth, to your success.

When it calls, pick up the phone. Do not say, ‘I am not ready, I can’t.’ Embrace it.

You are embracing change when you are not scared to change your mind, when you are open to new opportunities.

You are embracing change when you are not intimidated by your own mind, when you are willing to take a calculated risk.

When change is calling you, don’t resist it. Follow it. Explore it. Lean into it. And learn from it.

When change is calling, do not say, ‘I am okay. I do not want to deal with change right now.’ If you do, you are promoting the status quo. You are just hiding behind your fears.

You do not want to face your reality. And that is what change is all about. It is about facing reality.

When you are faced with a major change in your life, don’t resist it. Don’t get upset. Don’t get depressed. Don’t fill your life with change resisters. It won’t help you.

Because change will never stop calling you. The best solution is to pick up the phone, is to say, ‘yes, I am here.’ The question is, ‘Will you?’