No Matter What, I Will Not Stand On The Side Of Judgments

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“People judge other people when they are not comfortable with themselves, when they don’t love themselves, when they don’t believe in themselves, when they are afraid to live their own lives.”

No matter what people may have done to you, do not stand on the side of judgments. Because it is the right thing to do. Judge not. Why do we even do it? Why are we judging others when we are not perfect? Why are you worrying yourself about other people?

They are living their lives. But you are worrying about them. Why?

If you do not want other people to judge you, then do not judge them. If you do, they will.

It is not your right to judge others. Let them live their lives. They don’t own you anything. And you are not owning them anything. So why worry about them? You have enough to worry about in your own life.

Worry about yourself. Do not judge anyone. Because people judge others when they are not comfortable with themselves, when they don’t love themselves, when they are afraid to live their lives.

Judging others won’t help you. Instead, it will limit your growth. It will keep you where you are. And if you want to set yourself free, you must stop judging other people. And you can do it. And I know you will do it for yourself, for your soul, for your peace.

Are You “Living For Your Fictional Self?”

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Be comfortable with yourself. Stop trying to avoid yourself. It is not going to work. Because you can’t get away from yourself, from your mind, from your body, and from your soul. Other people can get away from you, but you cannot get away from yourself.

Since you can’t get away from yourself, then what are you going to do to reconnect with yourself, with your inner world?

Phillip C. McGraw says, “Living for your fictional self, whether it is a totally dominant force or just a partial one, is a dangerous state of being that diverts, absorbs, and robs your life energy.” Do not deceive yourself. When things are not going well for you, do not hide it. If you hide it, you are not deceiving others, you are deceiving yourself. You are stealing from your own life. You are crushing your own growth, your own success. Life is precious. Do not do that to yourself.

Your life matters. Start living it. Stop believing in where you were yesterday. Stop thinking about what didn’t go your way. It is a waste of your precious time to focus your attention on things that are no longer with you. Learn to let go. Letting go leads to freedom. When you let go of things that are eating you alive, you will attract better things, life-giving things into your life.

Do not fake it till you live it. Live it till you fake it. Do not fake your life. Be you, no matter what. Be comfortable living with yourself. If you cannot live with yourself, then where are you going to go?