How To Turn Negative Messages Around

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It starts with your own mindset. If you believe you can do great things, you can do them. Do not doubt yourself. Because self-doubt is the beginning of failure.

In his book Making Hope Happen: Create the Future You Want for Yourself and Others, Shane J. Lopez writes, ‘… mindset influences every aspect of your life, from work to sports, from relationships to parenting. If you believe you can change and develop, you know you can move beyond your present limitations.’

To ‘move beyond your present limitations’, you must change your thoughts.

You can do great things. Do not doubt yourself. Negative messages are not good for you. They are not good for your life, for your health, and for your happiness.

Here is why. According to Dr. Shane J. Lopez, ‘Negative messages are no more ‘realistic’ than your highest goals, and they rob you of agency.’

‘Negative messages deplete you, sap your agency, and keep you stuck. Disputing these messages will help you reclaim your motivation for the goals that matter to you most.’

If you want to achieve greatness, you must first embrace yourself. You must stop telling yourself negative things. If you do not, remember, ‘negative messages … keep you stuck.’ The question is, ‘Do you want to be stuck?’

Why You Shouldn’t Hold Anything Back

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To hold nothing back means to live wholeheartedly. It’s the presence required to experience Oneness. In such moments, we stumble through the bottom of our pain into the enormity of life.’- Mark Nepo

If you want to enjoy your life, do not hold anything back. Whatever you are going through in your life, in your career, you are not alone. You can go through it.

Be proud of yourself. Do not let anyone put you down. Because you are here to live, not to endure your life.

If you are not living your life, you are enduring your life. That is not what God created you to do with your life.

God created you to multiply. And if you are not growing, you are not living your life. Why is that? Because life is about moving forward. Life is about growing.

When you hold something back, it does not matter what it is, you are hiding your real self. You are hiding your light. You are hiding your growth. You are not proud of yourself. You do not believe in yourself.

Isn’t that too much for you?

Life is not perfect. Yes, life is hard. But you can make your own life better. To do that, do not focus on what isn’t working for you. Instead, focus on what is working for you. In other words, focus on the bright side of life.

Live your life wholeheartedly!