Tag: Communication

How To Get To The Top On Your Own Terms

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Motivational Quotes, Personal Development

You can get to the top if you are willing to do the work. You must, according to Josh Altman, ‘constantly be creating your own opportunities.’

Whatever you are doing right now, do it well. Because it is the beginning of where you are going. Your future depends on what you are doing right now.

According to Lauren Maillian Bias, ‘It doesn’t matter why the door opens. If it opens, don’t hesitate to walk through it, but be prepared to work harder than expected. Expectations of you are always higher than they may outwardly seem.’

‘Learn to clearly communicate in a way that commands respect, but isn’t abrasive.’

‘Always be committed to the job at hand. Do it well and get noticed enough to move forward.’

‘Show that you can persevere with grace during difficult situations. Problems are a part of life, and we all encounter them, but how you handle them will be most memorable.’

‘When people show you their true colors, believe them. Don’t make excuses for other people’s negative behaviors.’

‘Treat everyone like a rock star.’

‘Know when to hold out for what’s most important to you.’

‘Always be the bigger person and rise above the nonsense. Remember: The actions of those who would tear you down are a reflection of them. Don’t let someone win by dragging you into his or her mud puddle.’

‘Own your voice, control your narrative, and be deliberate in your communication.’

‘You are your reputation, not your company or your title. It’s all about you– the impresssions you leave, the interests you pique, the conversations you start.’

‘Stay grounded and never lose sight of your moral compass.’

‘Seek to work with people with integrity. You can always find higher ground when you’re working with good people.’

‘Every time you’re faced with a major decision, ask yourself: ‘Is it worth it even if I fail?’ If the answer is ‘yes,’ go for it!’

‘Live life on your terms. Do what works best for your life as defined by you and no one else.’

Source:

Lauren Maillian Bias (2014). The Path Redefined: Getting to The Top on Your Own Terms

Don’t Neglect What You Are Feeling Inside

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development

Take care of your feelings. They are your messengers. They are your hidden friends. And they are also your hidden enemies.

They are your hidden friends when you know how to use them to your advantage, when you know what to do with them when they show up, when you know how to manage them.

They are your enemies when you do not know what to do with them when they show up in your life, when you give in to them, when they take charge of your life. And when they are doing the making, when they are doing the driving.

That is why you should always listen to what is happening inside your body. If you don’t know what is going on inside your body, do not judge, just listen.

That is what your feelings really want. They want you to listen to them. When you listen, you will hear what they are saying. If you don’t, you will continue to live in pain, in fear.

When you are not happy with yourself, take your time to know what is going on in your life. Do not say, ‘Why me?’ Instead of bringing yourself down, why not ask, ‘What is the lesson here? What can I take away from this feeling?’ And you do have a lot to take away. To do that, you must not neglect what your inner self is telling you.