Do You Really know Who Your Friends Are?

Friends are important. The question is, ‘Do you really know who your friends are?’ Do you know what they are doing? Do you know how they treat other people? Do you know how they talk about things they do not understand? Do you know what they do when they are alone? Do you know what they are going after in life? Do you know what they like? Do you know what they do not like?

What about you? How do they talk about you? How do they treat you? Do they celebrate you when you win something? What about when you lose? Do they get angry when you tell them something great about yourself? Are they willing to work with you? Are they mean to you? Are they jealous of you?

Look, friends are important to you, to me, to others. But no one wants to be around people who are going to make you unhappy. No one wants to be with a bad friend, a jealous sucker. No one wants to be with a terrible person.

If you are not comfortable with your friends, you have a choice: move away from them.

If you do not, you are fooling yourself.

If You Do Not Want To Waste Your Life, You Must Stay Away From These People

They do not know what they want. What other people want is what they want.

They are not after what they want. They want to be like other people, not like themselves. They are not comfortable with who they are. They work really hard to be like other people.

They buy things they don’t need. Because they want to look successful, but they are not really successful.

They are not happy with where they are. They are not interested in how they are going to make their lives better.

They are just acting, not really living. They are experts. They know everything.

They surround themselves with people who don’t care about them. They are always around people who are takers, not givers.

They don’t know how to say ‘no’ to people who are not for them. They don’t know where they are going. They don’t even think about it.

They are okay with the same things. They are not responsible for anything. They are not responsible for their problems.

They blame other people for what they are going through in their lives. When you are with these people, you are not you.

You are just going through life, not really living your life. If you want to be successful, if you want to build something positive for yourself, you MUST stay away from these people. Because they losers. They are negative thinkers. They are takers, not supporters.