Tag: Comfort zone

‘Who Are You Going To Listen To, Them Or You?’

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Listen to yourself, not to them. Real breakthroughs happen when you listen to your inner self, when you have the courage to be you, when you have the courage to say, ‘No matter what, I am going to listen to myself.

Do not waste your time. According to Amber Rose, ‘You only live once. You have to take chances. You have to make your own decisions. You can ask your friends and family for their opinions, but at the end of the day, if you feel very strongly about what you want to do, you should do it. Others can only tell you what they think, an they’re not always right. They’re not you. They’re not you. They don’t know how it feels to be you. You are the only one who knows who you are and where you are going.’

That doesn’t mean you should not listen to your people. But if you are not comfortable with what they have to say, then you can go ahead and do your own thing.

Because you know where you are going. They don’t.

If You Do Not Want To Waste Your Life, You Must Stay Away From These People

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

They do not know what they want. What other people want is what they want.

They are not after what they want. They want to be like other people, not like themselves. They are not comfortable with who they are. They work really hard to be like other people.

They buy things they don’t need. Because they want to look successful, but they are not really successful.

They are not happy with where they are. They are not interested in how they are going to make their lives better.

They are just acting, not really living. They are experts. They know everything.

They surround themselves with people who don’t care about them. They are always around people who are takers, not givers.

They don’t know how to say ‘no’ to people who are not for them. They don’t know where they are going. They don’t even think about it.

They are okay with the same things. They are not responsible for anything. They are not responsible for their problems.

They blame other people for what they are going through in their lives. When you are with these people, you are not you.

You are just going through life, not really living your life. If you want to be successful, if you want to build something positive for yourself, you MUST stay away from these people. Because they losers. They are negative thinkers. They are takers, not supporters.