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4 Easy Ways To Change Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Change Management, Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth
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We are changing every day. Change is life. Life is change. If we are not changing, what are we doing?

Growing or dying.

Remember, “There is no growth without discomfort.” If you want to grow, you must be ready to get uncomfortable.

Jim Rohn said, “You can change all things for the better when you change yourself for the better.” The only way to change your life is to change yourself. If you don’t change, nothing will change.

You can change your life if you honestly follow the following practices:

Set great goals. “Don’t make your goal too easy; you’ll be cheating yourself.”- Alec Mackenzie

Question yourself. Ask yourself what it is that you really want. How to get what you want. What to do to get what you want. “The power to question is the basis for all human progress.”- Indira Gandhi

Discipline yourself to make your dreams come true. Without discipline, we cannot really achieve anything in life. With discipline, everything is possible in life. “It is the small disciplines that lead to great accomplishments.“- Jim Rohn

Take action to change your life. Action brings results. Only action can change your life. As a person, your actions will inspire people to follow you. “Words motivate, actions inspire.”- Gary Burnison

If You Really Want To Be Happy, Do These 4 Things Every Day

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Workplace Learning Report

“I have learned to seek my happiness by limiting my desires, rather than in attempting to satisfy them.”- John Stuart

“Ask yourself whether you are happy and you cease to be happy.”- John Stuart

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Happiness is not what you get from people, it is what you give to people.

You can find your own happiness within yourself. It comes from how you feel about yourself. You cannot be happy if you feel really bad about your life.

“Happiness is not what you get from people, it is what you give to people.”

To sustain the happiness within you, you must take action. You must hold yourself accountable for your own happiness. You must not wait for people to make you happy. You must act now by doing the following every day:

Focus on what is important to you. It does not matter what it is that is important to you, focus on doing it. Don’t engage yourself in a rat race. Focus on the things that can change your life. The more you focus on what is important to you, the better you will feel about yourself and your life.

As John Dewey once said, “To find out what we are fitted to do, and to secure an opportunity to do it, is the key to happiness.”

Expect change every day. The first step to a better and happier life is to expect and embrace change in your life. Whether you know it or not, we are changing every day. Do not resist change, embrace it. Instead of trying to resist change, find a way to understand it, and how to cope with it. That is the only way to a better life.

Focus on the good things that are happening around you. A lot of people are not happy today because they focus on the bad things that are happening around them. If you want to be happy, focus on what is positive in your life, in your work, in your relationships, and ignore what is not working. Focusing on what is not working will make feel bad about your life. If you focus on negative things, you will continue to bring in negative things into your life. To be super happy, focus on light, not darkness.

Always make yourself and other people happy. Give people a beautiful smile. Don’t frown your face all the time. If you do, people will not want anything to do with you. Make people laugh. Make them happy. Help them find the happiness within them, and they will help you find yours.

“The most wasted of all days is one without laughter.”- E.E. Cummings