Tag: Blaming

Manage Your Time Wisely

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘Time has no divisions to mark its passage, there is never a thunderstorm or blare of trumpets to announce the beginning of a new month or year; even when a new century begins it is only we mortals who ring bells and fire off pistols.”- Thomas Mann

Your time here on earth is important to you, to the people around you, and to the world.

If you are not getting the right results, then check how you are spending your time. If you are not where you are supposed to be, then check what you are doing that you are not supposed to be doing.

Do not blame other people for what you are getting. If you want to get more done in your life, remember this: ‘You can’t do everything, but you can do something.’ Because of that, do not waste your time on things that are not important to you. Instead, spend your time on what is important to you. Because if you do not have the discipline to use your time wisely, you will never get what you want.

Time is life. Time is everything. If you want to be successful, then use your time wisely. If you don’t care, then don’t worry about your time. I think you care. If you don’t care, I do. And that is why I am writing this note.

Marilee Adams On How To Change Your Life Forever

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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To change your life, to change anything in your life, 

you MUST question everything!

'Question everything!' If you want to change your life, you must ask great questions.

Do not judge yourself. 'No one can help anyone from a judger place.'' Because 'with judger mindest, the future can only be a recycled version of the past.'' Do not recycle your life. Live it. You are here to live, not to live in the past. 

Change starts with you. 'Change begins with the person who wants the change.'' The question is, do you want the change? If not, why not?

Change your questions. 'Change your questions, change your results.' Look, if you want to get different results, you must change your questions.

Do not blame yourself. Do not blame other people. 'Blame keeps us stuck in the past. Responsibility paves the path for a better future.' To go forward, take responsibility for your actions. Because blaming other people won't change anything. The only person who can change something is you. 
According to Marilee, 'Focusing on blame blinds us from seeing real alternatives and solutions. It's almost impossible to fix a problem when operating from blame.'

Be Flexible. 'Switching is what makes it possible to change. Switching is where the action is.'' In life, nothing stays the same. If you want to change yourself, be open to anything, from anywhere.

Be curious. 'Curiosity is the fast track to learner.' Why is that? According to Marilee, 'A question not asked is a door not opened.' Questions open doors. They are your greatest assets. So use them really well.