Tag: Believe in yourself

10 Tips On How To Be The Best You Can be

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development

Life is not going to do for you what you can do for yourself. Life will help you when you help yourself.

God will help you when you help yourself. No one is going to do for you what you are capable of doing for yourself.

You can create your own perfect life. To get there, you must first believe that you can have it, that it is possible.

According to Denis Waitley, ‘The greatest risk in life is doing nothing.’ If you do nothing, then do not expect anything. And your train will never leave the station.

‘Success is the process of learning, sharing, and growing.’ What does success mean to you? What does it really mean to you? Whatever it means in your world, just know that success is not about you. It is about how you live your life.

‘The two greatest fear busters are knowledge and action.’ Knowledge is not enough to create success. But when you use your knowledge to drive your actions, nothing can stop you from achieving your success. So if you want to see results, you must get to work.

‘To build the habit of success, we better know how to handle failure.’ Failure is a way forward. When you fail, learn from it.

‘Self-discipline means doing within while you do without.‘ When you do what others don’t want to do, even when you do not like to do it, that is self-discipline. To be successful, you must discipline yourself.

‘Stop stewing and start doing.’ It doesn’t matter what you want. If you do not take action to make it happen, you are not going anywhere. Because nothing happens without action.

‘See yourself making your goal happen.’ When you see it, you can go after it. If you want to bring your dreams to life, see them before you meet them.

‘If you don’t stand for something, you’ll fall for anything.’ What you stand for says a lot about you. If you believe in justice, then stand up for it. Do not be scared to fight for people who cannot do it for themselves. When you fight for one, you fight for all.

‘It’s not what you are that holds you back, it’s what you think you’re not.’ We do it. We are good at paying attention to what we don’t have. We are not interested in what we are good at.

Guess what? We are capable of more than we are actually doing right now. Look, if we are to move forward, we must start focusing on what we have, on what is going for us. If not, we will always feel empty.

Whatever it is that you want, if you want to get it, you have got to leave your station.

To Know More, You Must Question More

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Motivational Quotes, Personal Development

If you want to know more about yourself, you must question more. According to Sara Elise, ‘Questioning is the first step in your manifestation work…. It’s a process and a practice that allows you to firmly say, ‘I’m doing the dreaming and deciding for yourself.’

Do not follow the crowd. If you want to stand out, you must question everything. ‘Questioning everything is another step to creating a life for yourself beyond the realms of these structures, beyond the realms of what other people have dreamed and decided for you.’

Whatever you want in your life, you can seek it out yourself. Do not put your life at risk. Decide for yourself. Ask real questions. The more questions you ask, the better for you.

Because ‘questioning everything is about shaking things up, shaking loose our mental bondage.’ You have got to do that. Do not believe the lies that you have been telling yourself. You must shake them off. You must focus on what is going on in your life right now, what you are trying to accomplish right now.

‘Questioning is about getting a snapshot of the current situation so that you can properly assess it.’

You are not going to know what is going on around you if you do not have the courage to question yourself, to hear yourself, and to have the courage to ask real questions.

‘Questioning ourselves provides the foundation for understanding ourselves, assessing our needs, and then being able to communicate them to others.’

But know this: ‘Questioning everything is not permission for being inconsiderate, hurt, or self-absorbed or for going only where you feel a rush of excitement and adrenaline, because then you are creating space only for addiction, numbing, and immediate satisfaction.’

Remember, if you want to know more about things, ask more questions.

Source: Sara Elise (2023). A Recipe for More: Ingredients for a Life of Abundance and Ease