What Respectful People Do Every Day

People respect people who respect others. If you want people to respect you, to follow you, you must ‘be the first to respect’ them.

‘Don’t wait to be treated with respect before being respectful.’

They ‘make an effort to be worthy of their respect.’

They ‘look for, and acknowledge ‘diamonds in the rough,’ those things in others that are worthy of respect.’

‘Don’t try to stop disrespect with more disrespect.’

Don’t tolerate disrespectful behavior, no matter how inconsequential it may seem.’

‘Don’t minimize the power of respect.’

‘Don’t stop practicing respectful leadership.’

‘The Respectful Leader makes a full apology for disrespect.’

‘Respectful Leaders consistently look for, find, and acknowledge those qualities, skills, and perspectives in others that are worthy of respect.’

‘Respectful Leaders do their utmost to get their emotional shift together, stay positive, and never take out their frustrations and anger on others.’

Don’t be distracted.’

Source:

Gregg Ward (2016). The Respectful Leader: Seven Ways to Influence Without Intimidation

The Things That Matter

‘The things you care about

are the things that break your heart

are the things that give rise to excellence

and fill your life with meaning and joy.’- Brad Stulberg

When we care so much about something, no matter what it is, we will do things to keep it alive, to make it work, to bring it to life.

What we care about makes us feel special about ourselves. That is why you should pay attention to what makes you come alive, to what makes you really special, to what bring out the best in yourself.

Remember that it is not what you are doing that matters. It is how you feel about it that matters.

What you care about is the same thing that is going to make you unhappy when it is not working out.

And when you care about something, you have something to live for. When you care about other people, you put prople first.

When you care about yourself, you love yourself even more; you respect yourself even more.

No matter what is going on in your life, NEVER forget to take care of yourself. Because you matter.