Tag: Self-respect

The Things That Matter

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development

‘The things you care about

are the things that break your heart

are the things that give rise to excellence

and fill your life with meaning and joy.’- Brad Stulberg

When we care so much about something, no matter what it is, we will do things to keep it alive, to make it work, to bring it to life.

What we care about makes us feel special about ourselves. That is why you should pay attention to what makes you come alive, to what makes you really special, to what bring out the best in yourself.

Remember that it is not what you are doing that matters. It is how you feel about it that matters.

What you care about is the same thing that is going to make you unhappy when it is not working out.

And when you care about something, you have something to live for. When you care about other people, you put prople first.

When you care about yourself, you love yourself even more; you respect yourself even more.

No matter what is going on in your life, NEVER forget to take care of yourself. Because you matter.

Why You Should Never Joke With The Love You Have For Yourself

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Self-love is what you need. You don’t need love from anywhere. If you do not love yourself, if you do not take care of your life, of your work, of those who are for you, then don’t expect to get it from anywhere.

People are not selfish. They are just doing their own things. They are taking care of their own things, their own lives.

So if you want other people to even see you as a human being, you must first do it for yourself. You must respect who you are, no matter what. You must stop beating yourself up for nothing.

You must learn to be there for yourself when no one cares, when people are not nice to you.

Do not worry about what is not worth your time. Create space for yourself. Make time to love, to play with yourself. Stop doing too much. Productivity is not about doing too much. It is about loving what you do. It is about spending your time wisely.

It is about doing more with less. It is about spending time with quality people. It is about doing quality work with quality people.

If you are really serious about taking care of your life, then you must be comfortable with yourself.

The question is, ‘How comfortable are you with yourself?’