Month: June 2023

Love Yourself The Way You Want To Be Loved

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘The ultimate expression of love is loving another in the way they want to be loved.’- Gary John Bishop

Is life without love even possible? Living a life without love is like driving a car without gas. That is not possible. It is not possible because love is energy. Love is life.

Where there is no love, there can be no life, no movement, and no growth. Love is important. It is the reason we are here. And if you want to give it to other people, you must first give it to yourself. You must first love yourself the way you want to be loved.

Do not be scared. It is not a bad thing to love yourself first. If you think it is bad to love yourself first, then think about this question: ‘Can you give out what you do not have?’ Is it possible?

If you are true to yourself, the answer is no. And that is why you shouldn’t wait for others to love you. If you have the courage to love yourself the way you want to be loved, I think that is good enough. According to Gary John Bishop, ‘When someone say they don’t love you, it doesn’t have anything to do with you.’ It has everything to do with them. Why? Because you can’t give out what you do not have.

Manage Your Time Wisely

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘Time has no divisions to mark its passage, there is never a thunderstorm or blare of trumpets to announce the beginning of a new month or year; even when a new century begins it is only we mortals who ring bells and fire off pistols.”- Thomas Mann

Your time here on earth is important to you, to the people around you, and to the world.

If you are not getting the right results, then check how you are spending your time. If you are not where you are supposed to be, then check what you are doing that you are not supposed to be doing.

Do not blame other people for what you are getting. If you want to get more done in your life, remember this: ‘You can’t do everything, but you can do something.’ Because of that, do not waste your time on things that are not important to you. Instead, spend your time on what is important to you. Because if you do not have the discipline to use your time wisely, you will never get what you want.

Time is life. Time is everything. If you want to be successful, then use your time wisely. If you don’t care, then don’t worry about your time. I think you care. If you don’t care, I do. And that is why I am writing this note.