Month: May 2023

Decide What You Really Want To Become

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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No matter what you want to do with your life, you can do it. But to start, you have got to decide what you truly want to do with your life. You are the only one who can do that. No one can do it for you. And it is not going to easy. But do not let that keep you where you are.

To grow, you must change something that is not working for you. To get what you want in your life, it is your responsibility. Your brother can’t help you. You spouse can’t help you. Your friends can’t help you. Even your government can’t help you. Why? Why is that? Because they don’t know what you want to do with your life. Because you are the master of your life. Yes, your life.

No matter what it is that you want to do with yourself, you can do it. But you must decide. You must take a leap of faith. Because without action, nothing is going to happen. Just decide, then start the process. Yes, it is a process. You are not going to be successful overnight. There are no short cuts to success. If you want to be successful, you must decide. And you must live it on a daily basis. If not, it is not going to happen. Because success takes practice.

Never Regret Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Never regret your life. Whether you have what you think other people have or not, whether you are rich or poor, whether you are tall or short, educated or uneducated, never regret your life.

Instead of regret, why not practice self-love? Why not give yourself more love? Why not treat yourself the way you would want other people to treat you? Why not see yourself as a unique human being?

Remember, no one is perfect. We all have our hidden demons. Do not focus on what people are putting out there. Remember, you are not them. And they can never be you. You are who you are for a reason. And you should be proud of yourself. You should be proud of your uniqueness.

Do not let anyone put you down. And whatever they say or do to you, it is not about you. It is about them. All you need to do with yourself is to make yourself better. No matter what, do not forget who you are. Take care of who you are, not what the world wants you to be.

Love yourself. Give yourself enough love. Because if you do not love yourself, you will find it difficult to build a healthy connection with yourself. If you want to enjoy your life, you must build a healthy connection with yourself. If not, you are not living your own life. You are just living other people’s dreams.