Day: November 13, 2020

Why You Do Not Need Permission To Live Your Own Life.

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Workplace Learning Report
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Photo by Dominika Roseclay

“Man is the marker of happiness and misery.”- James Allen

“He is happy whom circumstances suit his temper; but he is more excellent who suits his temper to any circumstances.”- Daniel Hume, philosopher

Happiness comes from self-control. Happiness comes from creating the life you want for yourself and your family. You are the only one who can change your life. You are the only one who can design your life. No one can do that for you.

If you want to change your life, go ahead and do it. If you don’t do it, nobody will do it for you. Your life is yours to design. Know this: you don’t need permission from anyone to design your life. You need permission from yourself. If you seek permission before you start to live your life, then you are not really the owner of your life.

In order to be successful in life, you must hold the key to your life. If you give it away, you will never find it.

You are responsible for your life. You have the right to live your life the way you want to live it. If you don’t lead your life, someone else will lead you. Do you want that?

It is good to hold the key to your life in your own hand. There is nothing you cannot do when you are in control of your life. There is nothing you cannot do when you hold the key to your own power house- your mind. You can do anything, but with hard work. Are you ready to work really hard to change your life? If you are ready, you can change it.

You Have What It Takes To Do Whatever You Want To Do. Stop Limiting Yourself

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Photo by Tatiana Syrikova

“Once we accept our limits, we go beyond them.”- Albert Einstein

Happiness comes from self-knowledge. If you know who you are, there is nothing you cannot achieve in life. Don’t limit yourself to where you are right now. The world is waiting for you. You have what it takes to change the world. Don’t let failure stop you from doing great things in life. Don’t let fear stop you from releasing the greatness within you.

You are here to live your life, not to just exist. Fear is real. Failure is unavoidable. Failure is a moment of self-discovery. Failure is a way to know yourself better. To know what you can and cannot do.

You can do anything if you believe you can do it. But to do well in life, don’t jump into what you are not good at. You are not good at everything, but you are good at something. If you are good at everything, then you are not good at something. You cannot do everything, but you can do something really well. That “something” is what you should go after. It is what you should explore. It is what you should talk about all the time. Live it. Breathe it. Eat it. Think it. Work it. Enjoy it.

Instead of limiting yourself, take the time to think about what you can do to change your life. There are a lot you can do to change yourself.  You can start by taking action. You can start by loving yourself. For example, if you want to go to school, do it. If you want to start a business, start it. If you want to build a positive relationship, build it. You have what it takes to do whatever you want to do. Don’t wait. Stop waiting. The time will never be right to start something. But if you are ready to change yourself, if you are ready to change your life, if you are ready to inject energy into your life, now is the time. Once you accept to change, you can do it.