If you want to see the positive things in your life, you must stop focusing on the negative things in your life. Don’t go around focusing on what you cannot do. Focus on what you can do, not what you cannot do. When you focus on solutions, you will find solutions to your problems. But if you spend your time thinking about how bad things are for you, you will find more things to worry about.
Instead of wasting your time thinking about your failures, start thinking about what is working for you, not what is working against you. Don’t go around thinking you are not good enough. You are good enough. Now is not the time to start living in the past. Now is not the time to start focusing on what is wrong with you. Now is the time to start focusing on what is right with you. That is the best way to move forward.
“People won’t have time for you if you are always angry or complaining.”-
Stephen Hawking, theoretical physicist
It is easier to complain about everything than to take responsibility for everything. Stop complaining about what is not working for you. Stop focusing on the negative things in your life. We all have things to think about. But how we think about them is what make all the difference.
Stop complaining. You can change that. You have the power to do it. According to Gandhi, “Be the change you want to see in the world.” Yes, be the change you want to see in your life. If you don’t make the decision to change, to stop complaining, to start living, you are not going to move forward in your life. If you keep complaining about your life, you health, your work, your boss, where you are, you won’t get to your destination. Because the more you complain, the less you get.The more you complain, the more you will have to complain about.
The more you complain, the less you get. But the less you complain, the more you get. Look, my friend, don’t complain. It is not helping you. It is stealing your happiness away. You can’t be happy and complain at the same time. Be a happy person.
Instead of complaining about everything that is working or not working in your life, why not focus on what is working for you in your life. Whether you want to admit it or not, you have lots of things that are working for you. Write down the things that are working for you and celebrate them every day. The more you celebrate them, the more you will have to celebrate. Don’t be a complainer, be a celebrity.
If you want to stop complaining, you must focus your thoughts on the good things in your life. Don’t complain about anything. No matter what is happening in your life, don’t see yourself as a loser, see yourself as a warrior. You are not a victim, but a victor. You must accept your situation for what it is. Don’t try to change what you can’t change. Don’t complain about what you can’t change. What will change will change. What will not change will not change. So why are you complaining about the unchangeable?
Instead of complaining about your failures, take responsibility for your life, for your failures, for your challenges, and for your greatness. It is your life. You can make it how you want it. If you want to live your life to the fullest, complaining is not the way. Complainers never win. If you want to win, stop complaining. Are you ready to do that?