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Why not choose happiness?

The Secret Of Happiness

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth, Workplace Learning Report
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“The secret of happiness is the determination to be happy always, rather than wait for outer circumstances to make you happy.”

J. Donald Walters

You can make yourself happy. It is your decision to make. But you can’t find or make yourself happy if you don’t think happy thoughts. Your happiness is in your soul. So, if you want to connect with your happiness, your real happiness, you must look within you.

“Your happiness is within you.”

Happiness is simple. Just make yourself happy. Do things that will make you happy. Think about happy things. Don’t occupy your mind with poisonous things. Instead of practicing hate, practice love. Because without love, there is no way to happiness. You need to change your thoughts if you are to connect with your happiness.

“Your happiness is a state of your mind.”

Real happiness is a state of your mind. You need to take care of your mind. Without a healthy mind, you can’t connect with your happiness. When you feed your mind with positive, happy thoughts, you will be happy. But when you feed your mind with negative things, you will find it difficult to connect with your happiness. Your happiness comes from how you use your mind. If you use it well, happiness is yours. If you don’t use your mind well, unhappiness is yours.

Choose happiness!

How Complaining Is Hurting Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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“People won’t have time for you if you are always angry or complaining.”-

Stephen Hawking, theoretical physicist

It is easier to complain about everything than to take responsibility for everything. Stop complaining about what is not working for you. Stop focusing on the negative things in your life. We all have things to think about. But how we think about them is what make all the difference.

Stop complaining. You can change that. You have the power to do it. According to Gandhi, “Be the change you want to see in the world.” Yes, be the change you want to see in your life. If you don’t make the decision to change, to stop complaining, to start living, you are not going to move forward in your life. If you keep complaining about your life, you health, your work, your boss, where you are, you won’t get to your destination. Because the more you complain, the less you get. The more you complain, the more you will have to complain about.

The more you complain, the less you get. But the less you complain, the more you get. Look, my friend, don’t complain. It is not helping you. It is stealing your happiness away. You can’t be happy and complain at the same time. Be a happy person.

Instead of complaining about everything that is working or not working in your life, why not focus on what is working for you in your life. Whether you want to admit it or not, you have lots of things that are working for you. Write down the things that are working for you and celebrate them every day. The more you celebrate them, the more you will have to celebrate. Don’t be a complainer, be a celebrity.

If you want to stop complaining, you must focus your thoughts on the good things in your life. Don’t complain about anything. No matter what is happening in your life, don’t see yourself as a loser, see yourself as a warrior. You are not a victim, but a victor. You must accept your situation for what it is. Don’t try to change what you can’t change. Don’t complain about what you can’t change. What will change will change. What will not change will not change. So why are you complaining about the unchangeable?

Instead of complaining about your failures, take responsibility for your life, for your failures, for your challenges, and for your greatness. It is your life. You can make it how you want it. If you want to live your life to the fullest, complaining is not the way. Complainers never win. If you want to win, stop complaining. Are you ready to do that?