Always Evaluate Yourself In A Productive Way

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''If you aren't evaluating yourself in a productive way, the loses and 'failures' erode your self-confidence.''- Dr Jason Selk & Tom Bartow

When it comes to your growth, when it comes to your life,
do not lie to yourself. 
You can lie to other people but not to yourself.
If you can, do not lie to other people. Because if you do, it is coming back to hurt you.
It is better to be honest with yourself. It is also important that you always tell the truth.

Because the only thing that can take you to your next level in your life, in your career, 
is being honest with yourself. When you are honest with yourself, people will see it.

If you continue to lie to yourself, if you are not telling yourself the truth about your growth,
if you are not honest about what you can do, you will get into trouble.
To avoid that, you must be honest with the people around you. 
They can help you get what you want. But for that to happen, you must first help yourself
get what you want.

What do you want? You want to grow, right? Then how are you going to get there? By doing what 
you can do. By doing what you say you are going to do. By being the person you say you are. 
By standing up for what you believe in. And by evaluating yourself in a productive way.
If not, you are not going to grow. I hope you are telling yourself the truth. 
''Only the truth will set you free!''

Surround Yourself With People Who Will Tell You The Truth

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If you want to grow, if you want to learn,
you must surround yourself with 
people who are not afraid to tell 
you what you need to hear, 
not what you want to hear.

And you must be willing to learn from them.
In the words of Napoleon Hill, "SEEK the counsel
of men who will tell you the truth about 
yourself, even if it hurts you to hear it.
Mere commendation will not bring the
improvement you need."