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How To Design Your Own Future

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Keep your goal at the very forefront of your mind and be diligent about directing all your thoughts, focus, conversations, and actions in service of its success.”– Jen Sincero

Do not just talk about your future. If you want it to be different from what you have now, you must change what you are doing. Why is that? Because you have the power to shape your future. Yes, the future is unpredictable. But if you take what you are doing right now seriously, if you are doing what you are supposed to be doing, if you are meeting the right people, if you are challenging yourself, if you are questioning the status quo, then you can shape the direction of your future.

“The future cannot be predicted, but futures can be invented.”- Dennis Gabor

Yes, it is very difficult to predict the future. But if you know what you want for yourself, you will know what to do. You will know what not to do, what to avoid. Look, your future is in your own hands. If you want a better future, you must work for it. You must invent it. You must create it. Do it for you. Do not let people distract you from achieving your dreams. If you have a friend, or if you know people who are not for your dreams, let then go. Don’t let them hang around you. Do not let them drive your life. If you do, you will regret it. You will.

To live your life, you must own it. You must be your own driver. You must have the courage to think your own thoughts. You must be free to think for yourself, to think about your future. to think about what you are going to do to achieve your dreams, to love yourself, no matter what. According to John Galsworthy, “If you don’t think about the future, you cannot have one.” It is true. To have something, it must first accupy your mind. If you want something, think about it every day. If you don’t want something in your life, don’t think about it. Let it go. Do not worry about it. Do not let it dominate your mind.

“Your task is not to forsee the future, but to enable it.”- Antoine de Saint Exupery

And you can get rid of it if you are not afraid to dream big dreams. When it comes to your future, do not be afraid to dream big dreams. But to make them happen, you must do the work. Whether you like it or not, you must get your hands dirty. You must do the work. You must walk your talk. You must do what you say you are going to do. In the words of Richard Templar, “You are allowed to dream as high, as wide, as big, as extravagant, as impossible, as wacky, as silly, as bizarre, as unrealistically nonsensical as you want.” It is your future we are talking about here. You don’t know what you are going to meet. If you do not take the right risks, how are you going to get there? Do you even think you are going to get there? What do you think?

If you want to achieve your dreams, you must take calculated risks. If you want to be successful, you must meet the risks in your way. If you want to get ahead in your life, you must be comfortable taking the right risks. Do not be scared to dream. Dreams are free. But if you want your dream to come true, you must do the right things. You must follow your path. You must be comfortable with yourself. And you shouldn’t be scared of the unknown. Because the future is unknown. Whatever is unknown, is always scary. And that is why lots of people are stuck in their comfort zones.

Leave your comfort zone. It can’t help you. Believe in yourself. Do not let fear stuck you in your comfort zone. You need yourself to get what you want. You need your soul to get what you want. And you need to accept yourself as you are. Because if you are not yourself, you are not going to be able to achieve your goals.

Your goals are in your hands. If you want to bring them to light, you must start your life with what you have. Do not wait for the right time to take action. Start with what you have, then build on it. And remember that you are not going to be perfect. And accept that every day is not going to be the same for you. Whatever you have, take it, work with it. Do not wait for the right time to do your work. Do not wait for the right time to plan for your future. If you want your future to be better than what you have right now, you must start with who you are. When you do, you will have fun.

6 Ways To Accept Who You Are

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Accept yourself for who you really are. If you don’t have the courage to accept yourself, no one is going to accept you. Stop treating yourself badly. You deserve the best things in life. And you deserve to treat yourself really well.

No matter what you are going through in your life, no matter where you are in your life, do not give up. It is not the time to give up. It is the time to wake up! There is still life. When there is life, you can still do more things. You can change your life. You can defeat your enemies. You can walk away from those who are not for you.

Before you give up, before you say no to life, remember, every day is a new day. For that reason, you still have hope. Do not forget yourself. No matter what, say “yes to your life.” If you haven’t accepted yourself, try these strategies.

You must take responsibility for your life

Waiting for others to help you is not the answer. Helping yourself get back up when you fall is the answer. You are the only person who can make your life the way you want it. No one can do it for you. The key to success is to take responsibility for your life, for your actions.

It doesn’t matter what has happened to you. If you want things to change, you must take responsibility for your life. You have everything you need to take 100% responsibility for yourself. If you do not do it for yourself, no one is going to do it for you. Wilhelm Reich said, “The little man does not want to hear the truth about himself. He does not want the great responsibility which is his. He wants to remain a little man.” If you do not take responsibility for your life, you are not going to grow.

Do not be afraid to think big

If you want something small for yourself, don’t worry yourself about thinking big. But if you want to achieve great things, you must think big. You must work really hard to make your dreams come true. And you must expect the best for yourself. As Charles Spurgeon once said, “You don’t always get what you want, but you always get what you think you’re going to get.”

You should never underestimate what the power of your thought can do for you. Thoughts are powerful. They can make or break you. So if you want to create something positive, you must start the process with a positive thought. Because whatever you put into your mind is what you are going to get out of it.

Be comfortable with yourself

Focus on what you are becoming. Do not worry about what other people are saying about you. Why is that? Because you don’t have time to waste. They don’t matter. So do not make them relevant. No matter where you are in your life, be comfortable with yourself. That is all that matters. Friedrich Schiller said, “One cannot prevent people from thinking what they please.” Yes, you cannot prevent people from saying negative things about you. Do not let what other people are saying about you stop you from living your life.

Do not worry about your past

When it comes to chasing your dreams, your past is not relevant. Your past mistakes are not relevant. Your past failures are not relevant. The only thing you can do with your past is to learn from it. Nothing more, nothing less.

As Eckhart Tolle put it, “You cannot find yourself in the past or the future. The only place where you can find yourself is in the Now.” So if you want to master yourself, you must find yourself in the Now. Do not go back. Because life is not in the past.

If you want to move foreward in your life, you must live in the Now. Why is that? Because “you cannot find yourself in the past.”

You must NOT be afraid to express yourself

If you want your dream to come true, you must NOT be afraid to express it. Whatever you want to achieve in your life, do not be afraid to go for it. Because if you do not nurture your dream, your dream will not survive. It will die.

Life is not going to reward you for what you didn’t do. So if you want your dream to come true, you must pursue it. Do not just talk about it. You must breathe it. You must sleep with it. You are your dream. According to Barbara Sher, “… our dreams are who we are.”

Your dream will come true if you take action. Do not let fear stop your dream from happening. Start small. Build it day by day. Do not wait for the perfect time to change your life. The perfect time to change is now. If not now, then when?

You must accept your mistakes

You cannot accept yourself without first accepting your mistakes. You cannot accept your life without first accepting your failures. You cannot accept your life without first accepting your self. If you do not accept yourself, then you cannot move forward in your life. If you do not accept your mistakes, your failures, then you cannot move forward in your life.

When you are starting out, don’t worry about mistakes. They will happen. And they are going to happen. You cannot stop yourself from making mistakes. And you cannot avoid mistakes the first time. But do not make it a habit of making careless mistakes. If you do not know what you are doing, ask for help. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness; it is a sign of strength.

So if you want to grow, just know that you are not going to get it right the first time. According to Barbara Sher, “You don’t have to get it right the first time.” You can do it if you do not give up. You can do it if you have the courage to fail. Permit me to ask you. Do you have the courage to fail?