Tag: Thoughts

Are You Ready To Face Your Reality?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Your reality is your reality. Your reality is not my reality. And my reality is not your reality. It is subjective. It is what you say it is.

‘Not getting what you want is exactly what you need.‘- Gina Mollicone- Long

If you want to know more about your world, your reality, you must be honest with yourself.

If you are ready to explore your world, if you are ready to know more about yourself, about why you do what you do, it is going to be a long journey.

Why not start with these eight ways?

When you are down, don’t stay down.

President Obama was right when he said, ‘The only thing that is the end of the world is the end of the world. And so, you get knocked down, you get up, brush yourself off, and you get back to work.’ Yes, the only thing that is really the end of the world is the end of the world. When you are down, when you fail at something, don’t let it define you.

Unstuck yourself.

The only thing that can stuck you is you. You can unstuck yourself. Whatever you are going through in your life, according to Obama, is not the end of the world. The only thing that is the end of the world is when you don’t get back up. Remember, failure is not a problem, but not trying again is.

Choose happiness.

Nothing in life is perfect. To make yourself happy, you must choose happiness. Do not focus on what is going in your life. Instead of focusing on what you are not good at, why not enjoy what you are good at? According to Gina Mollicone- Long, ‘Circumstances don’t make you happy or unhappy, but your choices do.’ If you are not happy, pay attention to your thoughts. Do not carry negative thoughts around. They are too heavy for you. If you want to enjoy your life, you must drop negative thoughts.

Focus on solutions, not problems.

According to Gina Mollicone- Long, ‘When we focus on problems, we send a signal to the Universe that we want more problems.’ You have many things to celebrate in your life. A problem is not one them. If you want more solutions, you must focus on solutions. Do not forget that you get what you think about. Life is better when we focus on solutions. Yes, you can’t stop things from happening. When they do, focus on how you are going to make things better.

Wherever you are, always Recruit The Best!

4 Sayings That Can Change Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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You are the only person who can change your life. Do not wait for anyone to do your job for you. If you can’t do it yourself, no one is going to be able to do it for you.

Do you remember who you are? Do you know why you are still here?

You are your own master. You have what it takes to change your life, to change the direction of your future.

To do that, you must take control of your life. You must take charge of your thoughts, your feelings, your actions, and your life.

If you want to change your life, you can start with these life-changing sayings:

Lead yourself

‘Leading yourself- the art of personal leadership- is about exploring, and inspiring, the way that you interact with the world aroung you.’– Andy Ellis

To understand the world around you, you must first lead yourself. To understand other people, you must first lead yourself. Why is that? Because the world is biggger than you. You are constantly interacting with the world around you. If you want to know what is going on around you, you must get out of your own head.

Think for yourself

‘You won’t change when other people govern the way you think about yourself.’– Dan Rockwell

If you are not the owner of your thoughts, if you can’t think for yourself, then you are not the owner of your life. You are under the command of other people. Other people are the ones telling you what to do with your life, how to live your life, or where to go. You are not free. You are free when you are in charge of your thoughts. Do not forget that if you can take charge of your thoughts, you can take charge of your life. Life is too short to waste. If you want to live a purposeful life, you must take charge of your thoughts.

Change takes time

‘You can’t change your life in a day.’– Dan Rockwell

Change is not easy. But we can’t live without change. If we are not changing, if we hate change, we are not going to grow. Why is that? Because change is when we are open to new things, when we are willing to do whatever it takes to create a better life for ourselves. Change is the way, not the other way around. You can change your life. But it is not going to happen without you. If you are not willing to commit to doing the hard work, your life is not going to change.

Your best is good enough

‘Our best is good enough if we have the courage to see it through. Don’t ever give up on yourself.’– Tim Hague

What you are doing is good enough for you. Do not look down on yourself. No one knows it all. We are all learners. Do not beat yourself up. Instead of beating yourself up, why not find better ways to improve yourself. Remember that there is always room for improvement. Do not hope for perfection. That is not going to happen. If you want to grow, don’t give up on yourself. Keep working. Keep going. And keep learning.