Tag: respect

How Do You Treat People?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth
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How do you treat a person who cannot help you? How do you treat people who have no power? How do you treat yourself?

“Keep in mind that the true measure of an individual is how he treats a person who can do him absolutely no good.”

Eppie Lederer

People are not interested in what you have, how intelligent you are, how beautiful you are, or how successful you are; they are interested in how you treat people. People want to be treated with respect and dignity. They don’t want you to humiliate them. They want you to see them as human being. If you want people to respect you, love you, want you, you must treat them with respect. Respect is reciprocal. If you don’t treat people with respect, they will not treat you with respect.

When you meet people, don’t disrespect them. Give them love. Give them happiness. Make them believe in themselves. The more love you give to people, the more love you will receive. You get back what you sent into the world. If you send disrespect, you will receive disrespect. If you send respect, you will receive respect. Be mindful how you treat people. If you want to be treated with respect, treat people with respect.

Why Respecting Your Fear Is The Best Way To Conquer It

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being
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Fear talks to us in many ways. It prevent us from doing what we love. It stops us from living. It prevents us from finding our happiness. Fear is a wall that we must face if we are to succeed. It is talking to us. Fear is silent. Fear is quiet, but very powerful.

Fear is in us. So if we want to face our fears, we must ask ourselves, “Are we ready to face our fears?”

Since fear is a resistance, we should be careful how we approach it. We must approach it anywhere. Because if we don’t face our fears, we can’t move forward in life.

We must face our fears if we want to grow. Even if you don’t face it now, you will face it later. Because fear is in us. We carry it with us every day. It is our secret neighbor.

Do not resist your fear if you are to conquer it. Instead of trying to fight it with power, fight it by listening to it. When you listen to your fears, you will understand them better. You will learn more about them. You must respect your fears to understand them. It is important to respect your fears because you can’t work with what you don’t understand. You can’t face the enemy you don’t understand.

Since fear is our secret neighbor, if you want to deal with it, you must embrace it. You must face it with respect. You must listen to what fear has to say to you. You must accept it for what it is. If you try to do the opposite (which is possible), you are not helping yourself. Fear, our secret neighbor, is there.

It is there!