Tag: Resentment

How To Attract What Is Important To You

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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When you let go of what is no longer making you happy, it is good for you. It is good for your future self.

Letting go is creating space for better things to happen. It means making space for a better life. It means taking care of what is good in your life.

When you let go of resentment, peace will come into your life. When you let go of laziness, toughness will come into your life.

When you let go of toxic friends, great friends will find you. You will know when you see them. But you have got to work for it. Relationships don’t happen without work.

If you want better things, then you must let go of bad things. If you don’t like your job, find a better one.

If you want peace in your life, then stay away from chaos. Yes, positive chaos is good for creativity. But not for too long. Too long is bad. Too short is not good for your growth.

Because nobody can live in a chaotic place for too long. If you do, you are trading your happiness for money. Do not do that. It is not good for you.

Because the world is not complete without you.

Listening Requires This From You

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘What lovely, larger life becomes ours when we listen to one another.’– Naomi Shihab Nye

We get better when we listen to one another. We connect with other people when we listen. If you want to hear what others are saying, you must listen.

Listen. Listen. Love happens when we listen. Happiness increases when we listen. Listening is a mind builder.

‘Understanding does not occur when we try to intercept what someone wants to say to us by claiming we already know it.’- Hans- Geog Gadamer

Listening is more than just nodding your head. It is more than waiting to say something.

Listening requires your presence. If you are not there, you won’t hear what the other person is saying.

To know what is going on in your life, you must listen to yourself. If you want to know what is going on around you, you must listen.

If you are interested in what your people are doing, you must listen to them.

If you listen, you will hear. If you don’t, you won’t.

When you listen, you make people feel better about themselves. You are less likely to cause anxiety, pain, rejection, or resentment.

You can’t feel others if you don’t listen. According to Eckhart Tolle, ‘You cannot feel someone else’s Being except through your own.’ If you want people to feel your Being, you must listen to them. You can do it.