Tag: Relationships

The Meaning Of Being Lonely

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Loneliness is not you. You are not lonely. You are reconnecting with your yourself. You are becoming a better you.

You are reflecting on things that you could have done differently. You are redefining yourself.

You are not willing to go back to where you were yesterday. You are moving foward. You are cleaning up your dirty mind. You are simplifying your life.

You are healing your life. You are healing your wound. You are forgiving people who have done things to you.

Just because you are not with people, just because you are alone, it has nothing to do with how you are feeling right now. BUT

it has everything to do with what you want for YOU. It has everything to do with where you want to go. It has everything to do with your inner self, your best self. It has everything to do with your relationships with others.

When you are alone, you are not lonely. You are spending quality time with yourself. Being alone is not being lonely. It is being alive. It is being comfortable with yourself.

Be comfortable with yourself, no matter what is going on in your life. Because if you are not okay with yourself, you will find it hard to be okay with other people.

They Are Your Real Friends

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

People are calling you. Your friends are calling you. The question is, ‘Are you listening to them?’

If you want to hear, you must pay attention. Listen for something. Listen to your people, people who love you, who are for you, no matter what is going on in your life.

Your people, people who are willing to do whatever it takes to help you succeed. They are your true friends.

If you want to make a difference in the world, you need true friends. You do not need people who are not for you. You do not need any dream killers. You need more dreamers.

Do not ignore your real friends. You must listen to them. They know you. They know what you can do. When they are talking, just listen.

Because they are your true friends. Because they want you to succeed in your own life.

You need them. Because when they see things that are not good, that are not going to help you succeed, things that are unproductive, they will not stand for them. They will do something about them. They will bring them to light. Because they know that they are not going to get better if nothing is done about them.

Remember, nothing gets better by itself. If you want to know more about something, get closer to it. The closer, the better.