Lead From Your Heart

Love can reveal itself in the simplest of ways– by giving someone hope or telling a person that he or she is important.’

Humility begins and ends with four magical words: It’s not about you. It isn’t about deflecting compliments or projecting false modesty- it’s about demonstrating that whom you love, whom you care about, and whom you lead is more important than what you accomplish.’

When strong leaders embrace human dignity and care enough about whom they lead, they truly make their people partners in the organization’s pursuit of success.’

Whatever your job, title, or role, a passionate belief in what you do is often the difference between success and failure.’

Self-serving leaders value personal goals and agendas over the needs of the team. Heart-led leaders think in the ‘we’, while self-serving leaders are all about the ‘me.”

When people respect a leader– the person, not the position- they enthusiastically follow- at home, at work, in your community, even on the golf course!’

Heart-led leaders have the self-awareness to understand who they are and what’s important to them. They can step outside of themselves, giving themselves the ability not to see their own strengths and weaknesses but also to make decisions about how best to live their lives and serve those around them.’

When you choose the harder right instead of the easier wrong– even when no one is looking- you are truly leading with your heart.’

Heart-led leaders understand that transparency is the fastest way to foster trust, build teams, and grow relationships.’

Harboring ill will or negative feelings toward someone not only clouds our memory but also crowds our heart. The only way to make room for love, empathy, and compassion is to push hate and resentment out.’

Empathy makes an act of kindness more than a transition.’

Nothing better reveals who you are more than how you give to others.’

Source:

Tommy Spaulding (2015). The Heart Led Leader: How Living and Leading from the Heart Will Change Your Organization and Your Life

Leadership Is Not For Everyone

You are lost in the woods if you think you can have positive and productive and productive impact while ignoring the artistic side of your leadership.’

If you are going to lead, then perhaps learning to be authentic and accept responsibility is the most courageous place to start.’

You must listen to the stories people are telling about you and your culture, and then you must influence the stories.’

As a leader, you need to look reality in the face and accept it.’

Eliminating pretending as an organizational or personal strategy is a critical step to leading courageously.’

‘It’s time to come to terms with the fact that you simply can’t do it all.’

Driving your direct reports into action and encouraging involvement and initiative is critical to building high performance.’

Your presence as a leader relates to the heart and soul of who you are much more than it does to what you do.’

People are not afraid of taking action; they are afraid of what will happen if they take action.’

A courageous leader promotes personal responsibility in the organization.’

‘If you avoid responsibility, responsibility will eventually come back to get you.’

Source:

Mike Staver (2012). Leadership Isn’t for Cowards: How to Drive Performance by Challenging People and Confronting Problems