Tag: Negative

Protect Yourself From These People

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

What is your life about? Is it about you? Or is it about those around you? If you want to live a peaceful life, don’t make your life about you.

Instead, make your life about other people, those around you. They matter. They are your real life.

Yes, you have your own life. But your life is not complete without those who really love you.

But if those around you are not supporting you, if they are not healing your wound, if they are adding to your pain, if they are not there for you, if they are not happy, always negative, then you must let them go.

Don’t tolerate them. Do not tolerate any energy suckers. If something is not good for you, then you don’t need it in your life.

If something is not helping you, it is hurting you. If something is not for you, it is against you.

If you want to improve your life, you must first improve your environment. If you are in a toxic place, do not expect anything good to happen to you.

If you are with negative people, don’t expect them to make you happy. If you really value your happiness, your health, your career, you must stay away.

Why is that? Because you cannot get happiness from negative people.

Why We Lose Enthusiasm And How To Get It Back

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth, Spirituality
Back view of anonymous couple in activewear with safety equipment climbing rough gray rocky wall
Photo by Allan Mac

Practice enthusiasm. Never try to do something without enthusiasm. When we do something with enthusiasm, we are happier. If you do your work with enthusiasm, nothing can stop you from doing well. Don’t live your life without enthusiasm. Whatever you do, do it with enthusiasm. When you are happy with your life, when you are happy with your work, no one can stop you from achieving your goals. When you lose your enthusiasm, try to focus on what is going well for you. Don’t focus on anything negative in your life. Be grateful for what you have. Be grateful for what you don’t yet have. Remember, when you appreciate what you have, more things will come to you. Whatever you do, do it with enthusiasm. Why is that? Because it is good for you. It is good for your relationships. It is good for your health. It is good for your work. When you are enthusiastic about your life, there is nothing you can’t do to change your life. Above all, enthusiasm is attractive. If you want to live an attractive life, you must be enthusiastic about your life.