Tag: Love

Love Yourself The Way You Want To Be Loved

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘The ultimate expression of love is loving another in the way they want to be loved.’- Gary John Bishop

Is life without love even possible? Living a life without love is like driving a car without gas. That is not possible. It is not possible because love is energy. Love is life.

Where there is no love, there can be no life, no movement, and no growth. Love is important. It is the reason we are here. And if you want to give it to other people, you must first give it to yourself. You must first love yourself the way you want to be loved.

Do not be scared. It is not a bad thing to love yourself first. If you think it is bad to love yourself first, then think about this question: ‘Can you give out what you do not have?’ Is it possible?

If you are true to yourself, the answer is no. And that is why you shouldn’t wait for others to love you. If you have the courage to love yourself the way you want to be loved, I think that is good enough. According to Gary John Bishop, ‘When someone say they don’t love you, it doesn’t have anything to do with you.’ It has everything to do with them. Why? Because you can’t give out what you do not have.

It Is Time To Take The First Step

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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If you want to be successful, thinking alone won’t do it. If you want to achieve your goals, dreaming alone won’t do it. If you want to get ahead in your life, you must take action.

You must start.

You must take the first step.

Yes, taking the first step is scary. But without it, your dreams are not going to come true. It doesn’t matter what you want to do with your life. If you want results, you must get out of your comfort zone. Without the first step, you can’t take the second one.

‘Nothing will happen if you don’t have the courage to take your first step.’

Yes, it is scary. Take it. Do not worry about falling down. If you fall down, get yourself back up. Because nothing is going to happen if you do not have the courage to take the first step.

It will scare you, but take it. The more you take, the better. Just do it for yourself. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise. You can do it. You can do anything you want to do. You can do it if you do not give up. You can win if you commit yourself to it. According to Brian Tracy, ‘The act of taking the first step is what separates the winners from the losers.’ If you want to win, you must take your first step.