Why People Follow You

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People follow you because they want to follow you. They like you. They like what you stand for. And they believe in you. They believe in your leadership.

They know that leadership is not about you. It is about what you stand for. They know that leadership is about where you are going.

Leadership is about people. It is about who you are. It is also about how you treat other people. Leadership is not about what you have. It is about what you do for other people.

People follow you because of what you are doing for other people. If you are not doing anything to make a difference, then you are serving yourself.

According to Tim Irwin, ‘Inspiring others to give themselves unreservedly to the mission is not a management technique. Effective leadership is far more personal.’ He is right. If people don’t believe in your mission, if they don’t trust you, they won’t follow.

If you want people to follow you, give them the following things:

Give them your trust. When you say you want to do something, make sure you do it.

Treat them as they would like to be treated. Make them special. Lift them up. Give them something to believe in.

Show them the way. Create a place where they are free to make mistakes, where they are free to learn.

Above all, make sure they know where they are going. Tell them why you are going there.

If you don’t know something, admit it. Let them know that you don’t know everything.

Whenever they need you, be there for them. If you work for them, they will work for you. Because leadership is about serving other people. The question is, are you serving your people?

If You Genuinely Care About Your Life, You Will Choose Yourself

What are you doing to make your life better? What are you doing to make your business better? What are you doing to make your family better, your relationships better?

Do you have the courage to choose yourself? What are you doing to make your life meaningful?

Only by taking responsibility for yourself will you remain positive and positive and proactive, which makes you better able to live and lead on the high road.’- John Maxwell

Start something. Do something to get things going. Because growth is a process. If you want it to get better, you must commit yourself to making it happen.

How we view things is how we do things.’- John Maxwell

No matter what, give yourself permission to choose yourself. Give yourself permission to love yourself. Give yourself permission to recreate your life, to change.

To change your life, you must commit yourself to the process. Without commitment, nothing is going to grow. Without commitment, your seeds are not going to grow. If that is what you want, then don’t take action.