Tag: Human beings

People Love…

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

People are for other cheerful people. They want to hang out with them. They want to hang out with them because of how they make them feel.

Remember, it is not what you say to other people; it is how you say it that matters. If other people don’t want to be around you, maybe you have got to pay attention to how you are treating other people.

Again, remember, if you do not love people, people are not going to love you. If you don’t treat people well, they are not going to treat you well. If you don’t see them as human beings, they are not going to care about you.

That is how life works.

People love other people who are resilient, who are living their lives, who are not consumed by what is going on around them.

And people love other people who love them. If you want people to love you, you must first love yourself.

How Do You Talk To Yourself?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

When you talk to yourself, what do you say to yourself? Why is it important? Why is it important to your life? Why is it important to your growth? Why is it important to your career?

Because thoughts are powerful. They can tear us down. And they can lift us up. They can make us happy. And they can make us unhappy. That is why you should never use negative words to describe yourself. You cannot build a better life by tearing yourself down. You can’t build a happy life with negative words. You can’t build a better life with negative thoughts.

If you want to live a better life, you must talk to yourself like a better human being. Talk to yourself like someone you love, like someone you want to be with.

If you want to change your life, you must respect yourself. You must talk to yourself the way you talk to other people.

Because you can’t grow your life by pulling yourself down. You can’t move forward in your life by constantly telling yourself negative things. You can’t build a better life by tearing yourself down.

You are who you are. God created you the way you are for a reason. Do not criticize yourself. Instead of tearing yourself down, why not lift yourself up?

Instead of saying, ‘I am not good enough’, say, ‘I am good enough.’