Stop Proving Yourself To People Who Will Never Love You

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If you want your life to make sense to you, you must stop proving yourself to people who will never love you. You are not here on earth to prove yourself to anyone, but yourself. You must learn to be comfortable with yourself. If you are comfortable with yourself, then you don’t have to prove yourself to anyone.

You have nothing to show to anyone. You are who you are. You are not comparing your accomplishments to the accomplishments of other people. You are comfortable with yourself. Don’t look down on yourself. You are good enough. You are a unique human being. You should celebrate your uniqueness, not abuse it.

If you are around people who don’t know your worth, you don’t have to prove yourself to them. Let them know who you are, what you stand for, and what matters to you. Don’t worry about them. Worry about you and where you are going. That is good enough.

They don’t have to like what you are doing. But if you like what you are doing, that is what matters. Learn to be comfortable with people who don’t know you. If you are comfortable with them, judgement will disappear. Whether they know you or not, you have nothing to prove to anyone. Do you?

How Do You Perceive Yourself?

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“How you perceive yourself is how the others will see you.”– Paul Arden

You will receive what you give out. If you don’t feel good about yourself, that is exactly how the world will see you. But why are you not feeling good about yourself? Are you thinking others are better than you, or are thinking you are not where you supposed to be?

No one is better than you. You are who you are. You are where you are supposed to be right now. The opportunity you are looking for is right where you are. But if you don’t feel good about yourself, you will struggle to get things done.

You are unique. Don’t worry about what others are thinking of you. It is your duty to take care of yourself. It is not selfish to do that. If you don’t value yourself, no one will value you. When you value yourself, according to John C. Parkin, “What tends to happen is that the more you value yourself, the more the rest of the world will tend to agree and value you as well.” When you value yourself, people will value you. It is your responsibility to value your life. Are you willing and ready to do that?