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How To Make Fear Work For You

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“… The enemy is just as frightened as you are, and probably more so. They are not superman.”- George S. Patton

That is exactly how you should treat your fears. They are not superman. It is okay to fear something, but don’t be paralyzed by it. Don’t ignore your future because of fear. Don’t let go of opportunities because of fear. You must find a way to work with your fear. You can’t cure your fear, but you can work with it.

Stay positive. Believe in yourself. Believe that fear cannot stop you from reaching your goals. We all fear something. But you can put an end to it. You can change how you see your fear. Don’t feed your fear, starve it. When you look at your fear differently, the size of your fear will change. You must do that if you are to enjoy your journey to the other side of life. The better side.

To get to the better side of life, you must first conquer your fear. You must look fear in the eye. You must find a way to walk past it. You must take action. Action cures fear. If you want to take advantage of fear, take action.

You can also conquer your fear with love and compassion. Fear cannot stand love. Love is calm, strong, and productive. Love is healthier, wealthier, and nicer than fear. The root of love is untouchable. So if you want to really deal with your fear, practice the art of love. Share love, not fear. Love will put you in the right direction. Fear, on the other hand, will put you in the direction of anxiety. No matter what, love always wins.

If you don’t handle fear, it will handle you. To prevent that, you must work with it. You must conquer it. Don’t let it stop you from pursuing your goal. Don’t talk yourself out of your goal. We do that when we are scared of facing our fears. If you can deal with your fear today, tomorrow is yours.

Stop Worrying About What You Cannot Change

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You can’t change everything that is happening around you. But you can change one thing: YOU CAN CHANGE YOURSELF. Your job is to focus on how you are going to reach your goals.

The more you worry about what you cannot change, the more you are wasting your time. Worry is nothing but a joke! Instead of worrying about your life, your job, or your relationships, why not focus on what you are going to do to make it better. That is what you should be doing. Stop wasting your time. You can get everything back, but not your time.

Focus on solutions, not problems. You can’t solve a problem by focusing on a problem. But you can change the entire situation when you focus on solutions. Worry doesn’t make things better. Worry steals your time away. Worry doesn’t change who you are. Worry makes your life miserable. It keeps you in the dark. it steals your happiness away. Worry steals your joy away. It keeps you in your worry zone.

If you want to live your life, you must stop worrying about what you cannot change. You must learn to focus your time and attention on what you can do to make things better for you and the people around you. You are better than worry. You are better than what worry is giving you. You can do better than that. You can do it. You have done it before; you can do it again. Start now!