Tag: Goal setting

How To Increase Your Value In A Place Where People Don’t Value You

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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You cannot control other people, but you can take care of yourself. People will always be people.

If you are in a place where people don’t treat other people as human beings, it is not about you. It is not about your work. It is not about who you are. It is about them. It is about the place, the culture.

Do not let that bother you. Do not even pay attention to it. When you are there, just focus on what is good about the place. Find something that makes you happy. And focus on that.

When you are disrespected, do not fight back. The best way to respond is to make yourself better, is to increase your worth. Instead of reacting to what is going on around you, use your energy to increase your worth.

Do things that will make you happy. Follow your path. Do not let what is going on in your current place stop you from reaching your future goals.

People will always be people. We are different. If you can make the situation better, give it a shot. If not, then do not waste your time on what is not going to add value to your life.

If you think that it is not going to get better, then you have got to look for a place where people will value you, where people will respect you, where you can add value to people and to yourself.

You have got to keep growing your life. If where you are is not suporting you, you have got to take charge of your life.

Do not wait for anyone to come and help you. The good news is: no one is coming to help you. You have got to help yourself. Because you can help yourself. Because your life is your life. If you are not in charge, someone else is.

Do not go there. Do not let that happen to you. Move your life forward. When you walk away from a terrible place, God is taking you to a new place, a place where you can bring out the best in yourself, a place where you can express your true self.

Do not stuck yourself in a place where people are just nasty, where people are living a fear-based life. If you stay, you are going to start acting like them. Do not go there, my friend. It is a bad situation to be in.

If you want to grow, you must keep going. Do not force people to stay in your life. Your life is better than forcing yourself to stay in a place where you are not valued.

If you do not treat yourself with love, no one is going to treat you with love. If you tolerate abuse, they will give you more. If you do not walk away from an abusive situation, you will never find your happiness.

And you will continue to look for your real self. Is that you?

Why You Feel Empty Inside

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

If you think you are not enough, you are wrong. If you think you are not whole, you are wrong. If you think you don’t have what it takes to create a better life for yourself, you are wrong. If you think life is not fair, you are right. If you think you are making progress, you are right.

Because life is about making progress. Life is not about making things perfect. It is about making progress. It is about appreciating what we have. It is about working hard to get what is important to us. It is NOT about waiting for miracles to happen. It is about creating our miracles. It is about respecting our lives, no matter what is going on around us.

If you don’t feel right, check your thoughts. Because what you are thinking about is what is affecting you, not your situation.

If you change your thoughts about your situation, your situation will change. And you can manage it.

Whether you are feeling right or not, do not let your feelings make you forget who you are, why you are here, and where you are going.

When things are difficult, it is easier to give up than it is to keep fighting for what we want. If you want to get what you want, no one is going to give it to you; you have got to fight for it.

If not you, who do you think is going to fight your battle for you? No one is going to do it. The world is too busy to even recognize your situation.

If you don’t feel right, that is okay. You are not going to feel great every day. Some days are going to be better. Whatever you have got, take it. And you can make things better for yourself when you focus on what is really working for you.

Don’t focus on darkness. Don’t focus on negativity. Do not focus on what is missing. Don’t worry about what others are doing. Your time is coming. If you don’t give up, if you can stick to your goal, if you can tell yourself that ‘you are whole’, nothing is going to stop you from living your life the way you want to live it.

The question is, ‘What are you doing to create a positive life for yourself?’