Allow Yourself To Feel Whatever It Is You Are Feeling

Green Grass Field and Trees
Photo by eberhard grossgasteiger

We are human beings. Whatever it is that you are feeling, allow yourself to feel it. Only by allowing yourself to express your feelings can you know your true self. Do not hide your feelings.

It is okay to show your emotions. It is okay to feel your feelings. Don’t be afraid to tell people how you feel about them. If they are your true friends, they will stay with you. But if they are your false friends, they will disappear. Let them go. Your true friends will come to you. It is better to live alone and be happy than to live with people and be sad.

Whether people like it or not, you should never stop being your real self. Accept your life. Eckhart Tolle says, “Accepting means you allow yourself to feel whatever it is you are feeling at that moment… you can’t argue with what is. Well, you can, but if you do, you suffer.” Listen to your feelings. If you want to know what is happening within you, listen to your feelings. Do not ignore them.

You Cannot Grow Without Facing Your Fears

Tiger in Shallow Photo
Photo by Richard Verbeek

Whatever you have been avoiding, it is time to do it. Whatever you have been scared to do, it is time to do it.

Fear is not your enemy. Fear is your friend. If you want to do great things, you must defeat your fears. You must defeat the lion in front of you. You do must do what you think you cannot do. Look, you can do anything and everything. Don’t let fear stop you from living your life.

Most people are scared to leave where they are right now. They don’t want to face their fears. But if you are always running away from your fears, from your lion, from your tiger, you can never confront your fears. You must do something about them. You can’t do anything great without first conquering your fears. You will always run into your fears. The best thing to do for yourself and your people is to face them. If you don’t, they will never leave you alone.

Whether it is something new or old, don’t let fear stop you from do it. Because if you don’t take action to defeat your fears, you will never grow. Only action can cure fear. Take action to cure your own fear. Take action to take your life to the next level. That is where you want to be.

Until you see fear as a way to move forward, you will never grow. You want to grow, right? You must take action. Can you do it for yourself?