You Are Responsible For Your Own Feelings

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Paulo Coelho writes, 'In love, no one can harm anyone else; 
we are each of us responsible for our own feelings and 
cannot blame someone else for what we feel.''

You life is your responsibility. Your growth is your responsibility.
Your thoughts are yours. So you are reponsible for your feelings. 
Do not blame anyone for what you feel.
If you want your feelings to change, you must change your thoughts.
You must focus on what is going well in your life.
Yes, your life is not going to be perfect. 
You are not alone. Life is scary. Life is difficult.
No one has a perfect life. But how you live your life matters.
It does. If you want to live a better life, then change how you see your life. 

How To Help Others Be Their Best Selves

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As human beings, even when we don't say it,
we are ALWAYS looking for people who will make us 
feel good about ourselves.
We want to be around people who believe in us,
who support us, who want us to succeed, 
who are not scared to tell us where we are wrong.

But to make others feel good about themselves,
all you need to do is treat them as human beings.
According to John Maxwell and Rob Hoskins'
"When we believe in people, support them,
bring out their best, speak truth to them, and 
inspire them, we help them to be their best selves."

When you are yourself, your best self, you 
can see the best in other people. 
Wherever you go, make it a habit to always 
look for the best in things, in people.
When you do, the best will follow you.