Tag: fear

Rejection Is Not About You

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

You are not wasting your time. You are not playing with your life. You are where you are supposed to be. Whatever it is that is going on in your life, do not forget who you are. Do not give in to fear. Do not give in to what others are saying about you. If you do not listen to them, it won’t affect you.

If you are not getting what you want, do not worry about it. It is not about you. It is not about what you can do or what you cannot do. Because it is not. Because rejection is NOT about you. It is about what you are doing. When you are faced with issues, do not stop there. Ask yourself some hard questions. Do not give in to rejection. Because it is not about you.

Rejection is your learning platform. It is your way forward. Yes, it is not easy to feel rejected. It is okay. That is life. If you want to live your life, rejection is the way. Be okay with it.

The Cost Of Being Right

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

‘… Even when you’re right announcing you’re right doesn’t make you more right.’- Lia Garvin

If you want to advance your life, do not fight to be right. Because people don’t like to around people who are always right.

Do not fight to be right. Fight to be valuable. Fight to be great at what you are doing. Fight to be yourself, not to be right.

When you are dealing with other people, do not fight to be right. Instead of trying to be right, look for ways to add value to them.

Being right is not going to get you far in your life. It is going to hold you back from reaching your destination. Because no one wants to be around people who are always right.

If you want to grow your life, focus on getting better, not on being right.