Tag: Failure

How To Accept Imperfect Things

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Stop monitoring who owes what

‘If you want a more harmonious relationship, stop monitoring who owes what.’- Haemin Sunim

Who is an unfortunate person?

‘Who is an unfortunate person? One who looks at other people and sees only their flaws.’– Haemin Sunim

Don’t assume another bus will be coming

‘Don’t assume another bus will be coming. Sometimes the route will be changed, and you will never get another chance to catch the bus you missed.‘- Haemin Sunim

Do not be afraid of making mistakes

‘Do not be afraid of making mistakes. Be afraid only of not learning from your mistakes. An expert is someone who has acquired skills and knowledge by making a lot of mistakes.’- Haemin Sunim

Move on to the next one

‘Even if it’s not perfect, set it aside and move on to the next thing. The idea of ‘perfection’ exists only in your mind, and may not be the same for everyone.’- Haemin Sunim

Frustration and failure are a part of life

‘Frustration and failure are a part of life. If we do not flee from them but accept them calmly, we come to know what we need to do next.’- Haemin Sunim

Do not criticize people ahead of you

‘Do not try to promote yourself by criticizing people ahead of you.If you do, you, too, will be criticized by those behind you.’

How To Accept Yourself

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Care for yourself first

‘When you care for yourself first, the world will also find you worthy of care.’- Haemin Sunim

Learn to express yourself

‘Learn to express what you are feeling without agonizing over it. It is a life skill every bit as important as learning how to read. Without it, dissatisfaction builds up, arguments break out, and relationships can blow up like volcanoes.’- Haemin Sunim

Look at your flaws with love

‘Do not despair over what is imperfect in yourself. Instead, look at your flaws with love.’

Choose a life that improves through failure and pain

‘Rather than choosing a life in which you do nothing for fear of making a mistake, choose a life that improves through failure and pain.’– Haemin Sunim

Do not judge people

‘Don’t judge people based on how they appear, as they may have difficulties that nobody can see.’- Haemin Sunim

Do not let criticism upset you

‘If you keep letting criticism upset you, then you will gradually wither, and in the end you will not be able to do anything.’- Haemin Sunim

Forget yourself

‘We often feel happiest when we forget ourselves. When we feel grateful for someone, we think about that person, not so much about ourselves.’- Haemin Sunim

Give more than you take

‘If you want to excel in a relationship, the way to do so is very simple: Give more than you receive. The more we receive, we can’t help but feel grateful and like the person.’– Haemin Sunim