Tag: Failure

What To Do When You Don’t Get What You Want

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You cannot separate failure from success. Life is not about success; it is about learning from your failures. Do not reduce your mind. Because if you don’t try something new, you are not going to grow. When you do your work, you must not be afraid of failure. Failure is part of growth. Look, when you are trying to get things done, when you are trying to learn something new, or trying to become the true you, you are not going to get it right the first time. Whether you get it right or wrong, do not let the fear of failure stop you from living your life. When you fail, celebrate it, learn from it. Do not worry about failure, worry about not doing anything to change your situation. You matter. Your situation matters. Your life matters. Do not delegate your life. Do not be too hard on yourself when you fail. It is not your fault. You are just trying to change yourself. But you must be brave to conquer your fears. Be brave when you fail. It is going to happen. You cannot stop it. The only way you can stop yourself from failing is to stop living. If you don’t get it right the first time, do it again. When it comes to failure, you can always do it again. But don’t make it a habit. Because failure is not your name.

How Fear Hurts You

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According to Suzy Kassem, “Fear kills more dreams than failure ever will.” Yes, she is right. Fear can stop you from pursuing your dreams. Only fear can make look like a loser. Only fear can stop you from changing your life. Instead of letting fear block your way forward in your life, why not use it to get to where you want to be. Why are you not facing your fears? Why are you wasting your time?

“Fear … can make you do more wrong than hate and jealousy.”– Phillip K. Dick

Remember, you can face your fears. Do not be scared. Believe in yourself. Let your fears move you forward. Let your fears carry you to where you want to be. But you must do your own part. Because nothing happens by accident. Things happen for you when you prepare. Things happen to you when you don’t prepare.

“If you are afraid you don’t commit yourself to life completely.”- Phillip K. Dick

It does not matter what you are chasing in your life, it does not matter what you are pursuing in your life, but one thing is clear: It takes preparation to win the fight of life. If you want to win, prepare. If you don’t want to win, don’t prepare. Phillip K. Dick said, “Fear … can make you do more wrong than hate or jealousy. If you are afraid you don’t commit yourself to life completely; fear makes you always, always hold something back.” Please, my friend, do not let fear hold you back. Do not live in fear. Live your life in love. Because fear is a killer. If you don’t reject it, it can kill your dreams. Don’t let it kill your dreams.

“Fear makes you always , always hold something back.”- Phillip K. Dick