Why You Should Talk About What Is Bothering You

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‘Being able to talk about something that bothers us, quickly, keeps problems from growing larger and prevents us from trusting people who are not trustworthy.’- Dr. Henry Cloud

Whatever it is that is bothering you, not talking about it is not going to make it better. It is going to make things even worse.

All you need to do is talk to someone you trust, someone who is not going to post your life on Instagram.

Do not keep it to yourself. Everything is going to be okay. It will go away. But it won’t happen if you do not seek help from other people. If you do not seek help, nothing is going to change.

It won’t happen overnight. Just be patient with yourself, and everything is going to be alright.

8 Benefits Of Silence

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When it comes to communication, if you don’t have anything important to say, just listen to what others are saying. You learn more when you listen.

Why silence is important.

Silence is the element in which great things fashion themselves together; that at length they may emerge, full-formed and majestic, into the daylight of life, which they are thenceforth to rule.”- Thomas Carlyle

“Timely silence, then, is precious, for it is nothing less than the mother of the wisest thoughts.“- Diadochos of Photiki

“Move outside the tangle of fear-thinking. Live in silence.”- Rumi

“Silence is the perfect herald of joy: I were but little happy, if I could say how much.”- William Shakespeare

“The things you do not have to say make you rich.”– William Stafford

“Silence gives consent.”– Pope Boniface

“He sees only night, and hears only silence.”- Jacques Delille

“The silence of the people is a lesson for kinds.”- Soanen, Bishop of Senax