Do These Three Things When Change Is Calling

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Whether we are comfortable with it or not, change is here to stay. It is not going anywhere.

Instead of fighting change, you have got to get comfortable with being uncomfortable.

When it comes to change, you have got to be comfortable with it. You have got to make yourself comfortable with change. Because life is change. And change is life.

If you are not changing, then you are resisting it. Don’t do that, my friend. Because resisting change is not the way forward.

The only way forward, no matter how tough, how difficult, is to embrace change. It is to say, ‘Change, I am all in.’ Because change is always calling.

When it calls, don’t say no. When you say no to change, you are saying no to life, to your growth, to your success.

When it calls, pick up the phone. Do not say, ‘I am not ready, I can’t.’ Embrace it.

You are embracing change when you are not scared to change your mind, when you are open to new opportunities.

You are embracing change when you are not intimidated by your own mind, when you are willing to take a calculated risk.

When change is calling you, don’t resist it. Follow it. Explore it. Lean into it. And learn from it.

When change is calling, do not say, ‘I am okay. I do not want to deal with change right now.’ If you do, you are promoting the status quo. You are just hiding behind your fears.

You do not want to face your reality. And that is what change is all about. It is about facing reality.

When you are faced with a major change in your life, don’t resist it. Don’t get upset. Don’t get depressed. Don’t fill your life with change resisters. It won’t help you.

Because change will never stop calling you. The best solution is to pick up the phone, is to say, ‘yes, I am here.’ The question is, ‘Will you?’

Be Comfortable With Yourself

When things are tough, be comfortable with yourself. When you are tired, feel like giving up, be comfortable with yourself. When you are tired of explaining your values to others, those who don’t understand you, be okay with yourself. When people are not who you think they are, be comfortable with yourself. When you are the only person in the room fighting for those who cannot fight for themselves, be comfortable with yourself.

Because people are counting on you. If you are not comfortable with yourself, you won’t be able to fight for those who can’t fight for themselves. If you are not able to take a tough stand against a popular but not helpful issue, the world will suffer.

Don’t let that happen. Because being comfortable with yourself means self-love. It means you are okay with yourself, regardless of what is going on in the world. It means you see opportunities, not problems. It means you are happy with what you have. It means you know where you are, what is going on, and what you are going after.

Before you go, remember, being comfortable with yourself is self-love.