Tag: Comfortable

How To Say Yes To Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development

When you choose yourself, it means a yes to your life.

Saying yes to your life is about being comfortable in your own skin, no matter where you are.

When you say yes to your life, you are saying no to distractions, to anger, to resentment, to failure, to fear, to negative people, fake friends.

Saying yes to your life starts with you. When it comes to embracing your life, no matter what you have gone through in your life, it is your responsibility to reset your life, to reposition yourself for greatness.

Beause you own your life. If you are not for your life, no one is going to be for it. And if you are against yourself, no one can help you.

That is why you must say yes to your life like your life depends on it. Because your life really depends on it.

Saying yes to your life starts with being honest with yourself. In the words of Gezim Gashi, ‘Being honest with yourself about the gap between where you are right now and where you want to be will allow you map your action steps.’

When you say yes to your life, you are in a whole new place in your life. You are a different human being. It means you are willing to do whatever it takes to take your life to the next level.

When you say yes to your life, it means you know what you want, how to get it, and where to get it. It means you know what is going on in your world. You are not too far from your own reality.

Because, according to Gezim, ‘the more you know about your current reality, the more likely it is you’ll be able to map your way to your vision.’

That is what saying yes to your life is about. It doesn’t mean you are better than other people. It doesn’t mean you are smarter than other people. It does not mean you are after what other people are doing. And it doesn’t mean you are not going to face issues in the future. You will, but you will know what to do when they do arrive.

Saying yes to your life means you are willing to do whatever it takes to stand up for yourself, no matter what. It means you are comfortable with yourself. It means you don’t have any problem being with yourself. It means you are not going to sell yourself short, no matter what.

Saying yes to yourself means you are not going to settle for anything less than what the Lord has created you to achieve.

If you do not know how to say no to distractions, I want you to remember this: ‘Everything we do is a step towards our best self or away from it, toward some other possible of ourselves.’

So, what are you doing to move your life forward? What are you saying yes to? And what are you saying no to?

Source:

Gezim Gashi (2021). Unlocked: the power of You

Comfort Is What Is Holding You Back From Achieving Your Goals

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development
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If you want to grow, comfort is not your friend. It is your enemy number one. If you want to be successful, comfort is not your friend. It is your enemy number one.

If you are trying to get back up, to make a difference in your life, in the lives of those around you, you must get away from your comfort zone.

If you are tired of getting the same results, you must change where you are, what you do, and how you are doing it.

Remember, to change your life, you must change. To get to a new place, you must move. You must leave where you are. To know more, you must learn more. That is how life works.

Do not expect to get what you want if you are not willing to do the work. And to do the work, you must get out of your comfort area.

When it comes to success, we all want to be successful. But no one wants to leave where they are. No one wants to try new things. And no one wants to think differently.

According to Claudia Chan, ‘We all aim to be comfortable, but comfort is really the enemy of leadership because so many of steps up the mountain require courage.’

If you want to become great at something, it is not going to happen in your comfort zone. It is going to happen in your doing zone.

If you want less, stay in your comfort zone. If you want more, then make your way out of your comfort zone.

The question is, ‘Do you have the courage to take the first step?’

As always, when things get tough, remember, You are more, not less!